"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ban GigalöDJ
- Thread starter Saine
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Geographic ban is more effective than anything else.
IP ban, he could refresh his ipconf. and he has a new IP.
Email ban doesn't work be cause I could sign up for hotmail.
The only way to escape geographic ban is to move to another location which is harder. The same line is the same line.
What is a geographic ban? Does that mean no one from his area can log on to SoSuave? What if he lives in New York? Does that mean all of Manhattan is banned? Unless the guy lives in Ohio I don't think a Geographic ban is the brightest thing you can do.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Spiffy like Spizzay like yizzay? Is that SnoopDogg+Jay-Z talk. NEway, thx for xplaining, now I know. However, I don't see the good of banning a public library from access to SS.Originally posted by Saine
Geographic ban mean from telephone number ban to address ban.
What you said is more of like area ban, never happened and not developed.It would be spiffy if made.
I mean, clearly, losers like that just want attention. Metavirus/Rocket_Ship/Random_Loser/Random_Ship/14yearoldmonster/Poök/GigalöDJ/Elite_Womanizer/etc/etc/etc. Instead of replying to their stupid posts, just ignore them, let their stupidity fall on deaf ears. Instead, two stupid posts by some dome idiot turn into an all-star publicity stunt with half the SOSuave community taking notice. Just erase their posts and ban their acocunts... I mean... how many e-mail accounts can he keep making until he figures out taht no one will remember his stupid sh!t?
Spiffy. Lol it's a word dude. http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=spiffy&r=67
It's in the dictionary. I don't speak "ebonic". Sorry.
About the "losers". They can make as many email as needed.
It's good to ban the public library, I personally think only certain people should be able to use this website. Apparently someone leaked out too much.