"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ban GigalöDJ
- Thread starter Saine
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Geographic ban is more effective than anything else.
IP ban, he could refresh his ipconf. and he has a new IP.
Email ban doesn't work be cause I could sign up for hotmail.
The only way to escape geographic ban is to move to another location which is harder. The same line is the same line.
What is a geographic ban? Does that mean no one from his area can log on to SoSuave? What if he lives in New York? Does that mean all of Manhattan is banned? Unless the guy lives in Ohio I don't think a Geographic ban is the brightest thing you can do.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Spiffy like Spizzay like yizzay? Is that SnoopDogg+Jay-Z talk. NEway, thx for xplaining, now I know. However, I don't see the good of banning a public library from access to SS.Originally posted by Saine
Geographic ban mean from telephone number ban to address ban.
What you said is more of like area ban, never happened and not developed.It would be spiffy if made.
I mean, clearly, losers like that just want attention. Metavirus/Rocket_Ship/Random_Loser/Random_Ship/14yearoldmonster/Poök/GigalöDJ/Elite_Womanizer/etc/etc/etc. Instead of replying to their stupid posts, just ignore them, let their stupidity fall on deaf ears. Instead, two stupid posts by some dome idiot turn into an all-star publicity stunt with half the SOSuave community taking notice. Just erase their posts and ban their acocunts... I mean... how many e-mail accounts can he keep making until he figures out taht no one will remember his stupid sh!t?
Spiffy. Lol it's a word dude. http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=spiffy&r=67
It's in the dictionary. I don't speak "ebonic". Sorry.
About the "losers". They can make as many email as needed.
It's good to ban the public library, I personally think only certain people should be able to use this website. Apparently someone leaked out too much.