"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Burningblue said:
Wow, the moral vaccuum here is disturbing. Try being the child who gets caught in the middle of something like this. It affects their confidence and their social development and has the potential to create emotional problems. But hey, I hope you guys who do stuff like this are really having a lot of fun. Anyone who would pursue a married woman is the type of guy I would not turn my back on for a second, because I know that he will harm others to please himself. But, you know what? I could type all day and it's not going to make a difference. Some will have to learn the hard way and believe me it's going to happen. It's just a matter of when. Life will teach you your lesson. What goes around comes around.
I suggest you talk to the parents on behalf of the children. And speaking of morality, if you would get off of your high horse and read the thread, I said that I didn't advocate persuing married women. It's not my fault that they persue me.

Like I said previously, if guys knew how to take care of their wives they wouldn't need to worry about them being attracted to guys like me. Step up and be an man and take care of yours and stop blame guys who can do a better job than you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Selfish actions will come back round to bite you, if they dont i hope they do.
Funny. You did the unselfish action of marrying a woman with issues, you got bit, and yet wish it upon others. I'm glad I don't let life's funny outcomes make me that bitter.
 

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If a woman wants to cheat she will. If you decline she'll just find somebody else, so why turn down some good loving?
 

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If a woman wants to cheat she will. If you decline she'll just find somebody else, so why turn down some good loving?
It's as simple as that. A woman who is happy with her relationship won't cheat, she's getting what she needs from her guy.

You know, I think it's easier to falt the other guy than accept that accept that there's a problem with the relationship and probably himself. I can't fault those guys though, it's not the easy to see yourself as you really are, ergo focus your moral compass on others.

I love this thread, it's a interesting experiment. :up:
 

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If a woman wants to cheat she will. If you decline she'll just find somebody else, so why turn down some good loving?
Maybe because you're not so desperate that you have to bang every ho bag that comes along. 'Any lay is a good lay' is afc thinking.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Maybe because you're not so desperate that you have to bang every ho bag that comes along. 'Any lay is a good lay' is afc thinking.
Desperation has nothing to do with this. There is simply no sensible reason to turn down what is going to happen with or without you.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
It's as simple as that. A woman who is happy with her relationship won't cheat, she's getting what she needs from her guy.

You know, I think it's easier to falt the other guy than accept that accept that there's a problem with the relationship and probably himself. I can't fault those guys though, it's not the easy to see yourself as you really are, ergo focus your moral compass on others.

I love this thread, it's a interesting experiment. :up:
Your wrong, you are heading for a big fall, this ideal is going to come back and bite you firmly on the ass, you seem to have a rosy tainted outlook on the female population this is a big problem for you, but you cant see it, wont see it and me i am full of sh** to you.

You will learn and it aint going to be pritty, do not say you was not warned.

keep entertaining the cheating women of this world, GL when one ties you down and your so into yourself outlook will firmly root you as the other guy in the scenario you so like to paint.
Blaming the other guy this is the path that you are heading down and you dont even know it.

A DJ this outlook seems more like a women puzzy toy then a DJ to me, manipulation which your ego is really thriving on. A cheating women balming the partner it is so easy, it massages your ego and proves your better then him, it does not cross your mind that the women may be at fault. Why not strap a sign on your forehead saying wife dildo i will even buy all your BS for free.
 

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jonwon said:
Your wrong, you are heading for a big fall, this ideal is going to come back and bite you firmly on the ass, you seem to have a rosy tainted outlook on the female population this is a big problem for you, but you cant see it, wont see it and me i am full of sh** to you.
By your extreme interest in what I do in my life its readily apparent that you have a problem. Why does my life interest you so much? Why do you feel that you need to be my savior? Are you saying that your life is perfect and that you have nothing that needs attending to?

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You will learn and it aint going to be pritty, do not say you was not warned.
And I am supposed to listen to a guy who can't even spell "pretty?" This keeps getting better and better.

jonwon said:
keep entertaining the cheating women of this world, GL when one ties you down and your so into yourself outlook will firmly root you as the other guy in the scenario you so like to paint.
Blaming the other guy this is the path that you are heading down and you dont even know it.
I don't think so, that would mean that I would need to change my outlook on life to one that's pessimistic and become bitter. I would probably also have to start trying to force my own morality upon others in an attempt to justify my belief. Wait a second, I can't do that. You're already doing it very well!

jonwon said:
A DJ this outlook seems more like a women puzzy toy then a DJ to me, manipulation which your ego is really thriving on. A cheating women balming the partner it is so easy, it massages your ego and proves your better then him, it does not cross your mind that the women may be at fault. Why not strap a sign on your forehead saying wife dildo i will even buy all your BS for free.
I said it before and I'll say it again, it's interesting how I can elicit so much out of you. My actions have no bearing on your life what so ever and yet I control these outbreaks of yours by just typing a few words into the computer.

I will admit that I'm curious about the fvck ups you've had in your life to get you to the point to be so enamored by this topic. I'd like to see just how secure you are when you are in a relationship. I wonder if you worry about the fidelity of the woman you're with, not because of her history but about any relationship deficits you may have and feel self conscious about. I wonder about your capacity (or lack of) to be able to be self confident in your actions to the point that you wouldn't need to worry so much.

But then again, if I were truly curious about these things that would mean that I would care; and I don't.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I don't think that anyone that cheats is trying to make the situation better, it's really just an escape from reality. Just like someone who over indulges in drinking or presription drugs, it's just a temporty diversion that eventually wears off and they are placed back into reality.
Yes, your comment fits me as a gloove
I took this drug called net_cheating and now I am back to the reality
I am feeling guilty and still hurt by my wife
 

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This is a hella good thread.

What we have established here is:

Francisco is the worst, most evil person ever because:

1) He MAKES all women cheat on their husbands by chasing them mercilessly.
2) He ruins relationships and families.
3) Makes little children grow up in broken families.
4) Emasculates the husbands who then feel guilty for not being better men. Some, no doubt, have, I'm sure, killed themselves.
5) Falls hopelessly in love with every married woman he balls because he really really wants to find his "one true love" and picks on married women cause their easy.
6) Has bullet-wounds, scars from being attacked by enraged husbands.

AND

7) Likes to needle people that don't read the thread and don't understand that he just wants to have a little fun.

Did I leave out anything?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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grinder said:
This is a hella good thread.

What we have established here is:

Francisco is the worst, most evil person ever because:

1) He MAKES all women cheat on their husbands by chasing them mercilessly.
2) He ruins relationships and families.
3) Makes little children grow up in broken families.
4) Emasculates the husbands who then feel guilty for not being better men. Some, no doubt, have, I'm sure, killed themselves.
5) Falls hopelessly in love with every married woman he balls because he really really wants to find his "one true love" and picks on married women cause their easy.
6) Has bullet-wounds, scars from being attacked by enraged husbands.

AND

7) Likes to needle people that don't read the thread and don't understand that he just wants to have a little fun.

Did I leave out anything?
Hey, can I get that on a plaque? My buds would never believe that I can illicit so much power over other peoples lives. Hey, what do you guys think if I become a cult leader?
 

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Yes, your comment fits me as a gloove
I took this drug called net_cheating and now I am back to the reality
I am feeling guilty and still hurt by my wife
OMG, you actually went back and read the entire thread and quoted things I said instead of just jumping to the end and making wild assumptions? WTF is wrong with 'ya man??!!! You're using your logic and not speaking from your emotions! You're not going to fit in with most of the guys in this thread. Where do you come off taking accountability for your own actions? What do you think you are, a man or something?
 

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A cult would be great. Just let me mix up the "chump-aide". The cups will have a special little message that states: "Drink this and you will find your one true soulmate...". Of course, the DJ's won't drink it.

Francisco, shouldn't you be getting ready for Church so you can score some digits from some lonely married Christian ladies? Me, personally, I got a 1pm social to get to. Schwang!

Everybody knows I'm kidding, right? Except for the social. Gotta go.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
By your extreme interest in what I do in my life its readily apparent that you have a problem. Why does my life interest you so much? Why do you feel that you need to be my savior? Are you saying that your life is perfect and that you have nothing that needs attending to?


And I am supposed to listen to a guy who can't even spell "pretty?" This keeps getting better and better.



I don't think so, that would mean that I would need to change my outlook on life to one that's pessimistic and become bitter. I would probably also have to start trying to force my own morality upon others in an attempt to justify my belief. Wait a second, I can't do that. You're already doing it very well!



I said it before and I'll say it again, it's interesting how I can elicit so much out of you. My actions have no bearing on your life what so ever and yet I control these outbreaks of yours by just typing a few words into the computer.

I will admit that I'm curious about the fvck ups you've had in your life to get you to the point to be so enamored by this topic. I'd like to see just how secure you are when you are in a relationship. I wonder if you worry about the fidelity of the woman you're with, not because of her history but about any relationship deficits you may have and feel self conscious about. I wonder about your capacity (or lack of) to be able to be self confident in your actions to the point that you wouldn't need to worry so much.

But then again, if I were truly curious about these things that would mean that I would care; and I don't.
curios about you, yeh we all are! man your so cool i want to be just like you.

As for the spelling stuff this is not a GCSE mock exam it is a forum try some other put down!

look carry on this way your problem not mine, i mearly made a comment, but just as i suspected it is a means to inflate that huge ego you have.

Man you really do not get it at all, carry on!

Arguing or carrying on this is a total waste or my time, seems you really derive shi* from this stuff! But hey get the married women, keep em entertained and keep that rather inflated ego topped up, hey its all cool, do what you want, you really dont see the point of my post at all.
hey but your the man right your so much better then every one else out there, even the other guy, yeh its true man your soo cool, wish i was just like you!


To you it is mearly a put down, when i offered advice you dont want it dont need it just remember when your in the scenario you so like to paint you heard it here first.
But it is always the other guy right? lol you are the best thing i have read on here to date.

Why does it say master DJ under your avatar you dont seem to be anywhere near the mark.

actually i take it back you are a DJ by all accounts, but you really do not see what is going on here and i am very suprised!

Take off the glasses!
 

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...actually i take it back you are a DJ by all accounts, but you really do not see what is going on here and i am very suprised!..
Alright, I'll bite. What pray tell do you think is going on. Please, enlighten us...

And BTW, I thank you for acknowledging my awesome DJ talent... :rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Alright, I'll bite. What pray tell do you think is going on. Please, enlighten us...

And BTW, I thank you for acknowledging my awesome DJ talent... :rolleyes:

lol np :D
 

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Blaming some guy for breaking up your marriage is like blaming the bank for losing your house when you don't keep up the mortgage payments. I suppose the bank is to blame for your kids not having a home too.
 

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Blaming some guy for breaking up your marriage is like blaming the bank for losing your house when you don't keep up the mortgage payments. I suppose the bank is to blame for your kids not having a home too.
Bravo! D@mn good analogy! :up:
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Those who can, do. Those who can't (or those who have been cheated on) whine.

And I'll again say for the record, married women come after me. ;)
Never being cheated. And they do after me too. But, like a REAL man and a REAL DJ...I can pick and choose. I have high standards. I can afford to have high standards.

I don't need Internet chicks...and I don't need unhappy women in my life either.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Like I said previously, if guys knew how to take care of their wives they wouldn't need to worry about them being attracted to guys like me. Step up and be an man and take care of yours and stop blame guys who can do a better job than you.
1- You spent hours in the Internet trying to find puttani.
2- You never being married (what do you know about taking care of a wife?)

So...maybe YOU should step up and show other men how to be a "man" by marrying some woman and trying to keep her.

Trust me...rarely a man that is into the Internet dating thing qualifies as such a man.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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