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Bald Guys' Game (BBG)

Should bald guys use different game?

  • Yes

    Votes: 3 23.1%
  • No

    Votes: 10 76.9%

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Smooth_texter

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Hello forum members.


I have been reading here for the last year and finally decided to post. I am not sure if I have seen yet such a topic, even though there were a few mentions in some posts.


So to cut it short - what do you think is the most optimal game that a male with thinning/fully bald head should run?
I know it sounds weird, but during cold approach you cannot use the same game as the pretty peacocking dude with long hair, since it will look bizarre. Also, women might be a bit intimated at first.


I am a 33 y.o. male, mostly did social circle game and had some success with social media. However, I want to learn and start using cold approach. My hair started thinning in my early 20s and now is pretty much gone.



Thanks for your time and regards,
Smooth_texter
 
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IKO69

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I have a full head of hair but willingly shaved my head many times in the past - it didn't make a difference to be honest. As a bald guy your hair really won't be that much of a hindrance.

Shaving your head always looks better than rocking a bad hair line. I'd say that is far far worse than being bald. When the hair line looks bad - and I don't mean minor receding, it's time to do it.
 

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I'm a chick and I say shave your entire head, it's sexy as hell.
Laying it on a little thick there, no?

Here's what the research shows as of March 31, 2022.

>>A shaved head has become a symbol of aggression and toughness. It takes a man of confidence to display a shorn head. According to the research – guys with shaved heads are also seen as 13% stronger, taller and having greater leadership potential than guys with a full head or thinning hair.<<
“Sam, you have great shiny thick black hair that’s slicked back nicely for your 38 year old age and shorter stature.”
”Thanks,”
”But research shows if you shave it all off, girls will see as stronger, taller, and more leadership potential,”
”Really? Alright I will shave it tomorrow.”

Come on.
 

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Well look on Vin Diesel, Bruce Willis and Dwayne Johnson for example. They are doing well even though they are bald.
They are all very fit and so should you be too.
 

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Hello forum members.


I have been reading here for the last year and finally decided to post. I am not sure if I have seen yet such a topic, even though there were a few mentions in some posts.


So to cut it short - what do you think is the most optimal game that a male with thinning/fully bald head should run?
I know it sounds weird, but during cold approach you cannot use the same game as the pretty peacocking dude with long hair, since it will look bizarre. Also, women might be a bit intimated at first.


I am a 33 y.o. male, mostly did social circle game and had some success with social media. However, I want to learn and start using cold approach. My hair started thinning in my early 20s and now is pretty much gone.



Thanks for your time and regards,
Smooth_texter
Mate, it sucks. OWN IT.

I cannot comment on it personally. I saw Derek more plates do a video on Thor. He's done others on baldness. Check him out. He argues most men by 50 are bald or experience some form of it. Receding, thinning, and or bald.

I know dudes that used glue or absurd hair products and spray. BALD. Other girls dye hair and use tons of crap. Perfect full head of hair. I suspect (guessing ???) that it's on the X chromosome. That if you are predisposed due to rubbish genetics, it's game over. Women got 2 X chromosomes so, if 1 is ****ed they got another X. Men got a 50/50 chance. I'm personally blessed. Pure dumb luck.


Learn game. Do cold approach. If you can get a transplant or look at restoration products. Personally I would shave it and get more girls. Look for role models who CRUSH IT. Dwayne Johnson, Jason Statham, Bruce Willis, etc. Use bald pickup artists like Vadim, Owen Cook, Neil Strauss etc as examples of how to win. Run game.

Some women will like me. Some don't. I'm out to pull the hottest girls. Dtf or next. Comply or bye. Full head of hair, billionaire, 9 meters tall, etc some girls aren't interested. Nobody cares about your hair. You ain't that important. Go get girls or don't. More for me.

Personally I'd shave it. If it bugged me I'd do a transplant or hair plugs &&& get more girls just cause.

Meditate. Pull. Get more girls.
 

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Mate, it sucks. OWN IT.
This 1000%. Be confident about being bald. Goes without saying you can't be fat and look sloppy either. Lift, eat smart, drink plenty of water, supreme level of skin care, and dress well.

I'm no Chad, but I get plenty of IOIs these days and I'm bald. If anything, it'll set you apart from the rest of the crowd and make you stand out.
 

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Be fit, I'd say tan can help too. Lift heavy. Can always rock a hat too.

Utilitze your strengths, all we can do out there.

Thanks, RBK, I am learning more about how to utilise my strengths more.

I'm a chick and I say shave your entire head, it's sexy as hell.

Here's what the research shows as of March 31, 2022.

>>A shaved head has become a symbol of aggression and toughness. It takes a man of confidence to display a shorn head. According to the research – guys with shaved heads are also seen as 13% stronger, taller and having greater leadership potential than guys with a full head or thinning hair.<<
Hi catsmeow,

I have also read some studies like this. I genuinely believe its not only the hair that gives this glow, more likely the total package of personality, physique and appearance.

I have a full head of hair but willingly shaved my head many times in the past - it didn't make a difference to be honest. As a bald guy your hair really won't be that much of a hindrance.

Shaving your head always looks better than rocking a bad hair line. I'd say that is far far worse than being bald. When the hair line looks bad - and I don't mean minor receding, it's time to do it.
You are correct, not shaving it is basically having the worst of both worlds.

Well look on Vin Diesel, Bruce Willis and Dwayne Johnson for example. They are doing well even though they are bald.
They are all very fit and so should you be too.
Hi PowerQuest,

I have been a fan of those guys for like 20 years. While I do understand the example, these are also ultra-high tier men, having lots of social proof, celebrity status, etc. I get more motivated by seeing some average Joe that improves a lot and experiences the change in the perception of others.

Mate, it sucks. OWN IT.

I cannot comment on it personally. I saw Derek more plates do a video on Thor. He's done others on baldness. Check him out. He argues most men by 50 are bald or experience some form of it. Receding, thinning, and or bald.

I know dudes that used glue or absurd hair products and spray. BALD. Other girls dye hair and use tons of crap. Perfect full head of hair. I suspect (guessing ???) that it's on the X chromosome. That if you are predisposed due to rubbish genetics, it's game over. Women got 2 X chromosomes so, if 1 is ****ed they got another X. Men got a 50/50 chance. I'm personally blessed. Pure dumb luck.


Learn game. Do cold approach. If you can get a transplant or look at restoration products. Personally I would shave it and get more girls. Look for role models who CRUSH IT. Dwayne Johnson, Jason Statham, Bruce Willis, etc. Use bald pickup artists like Vadim, Owen Cook, Neil Strauss etc as examples of how to win. Run game.

Some women will like me. Some don't. I'm out to pull the hottest girls. Dtf or next. Comply or bye. Full head of hair, billionaire, 9 meters tall, etc some girls aren't interested. Nobody cares about your hair. You ain't that important. Go get girls or don't. More for me.

Personally I'd shave it. If it bugged me I'd do a transplant or hair plugs &&& get more girls just cause.

Meditate. Pull. Get more girls.
Hi DEEZEDBRAH,

Thanks for the tips and motivation.

Don't get me wrong, I am not feeling sorry about myself. This started 13 years ago, so I have come to terms with it. I actually expected it, as I know the men from both sides of my family.

I won't be getting any transplants, using finasteride, etc. I think a man should work with what he was given, and make the best of it.
The most dramatic change was actually me implementing the "comply or bye" principle that I learned here - I am not a teenager anymore, I do not have time for time wasters (and that includes some of my male friends).


This 1000%. Be confident about being bald. Goes without saying you can't be fat and look sloppy either. Lift, eat smart, drink plenty of water, supreme level of skin care, and dress well.

I'm no Chad, but I get plenty of IOIs these days and I'm bald. If anything, it'll set you apart from the rest of the crowd and make you stand out.
Hi.

Thanks for the tips and I fully agree. I have embraced this years ago. I have also been lifting on and off and been having visible abs yearly, for the last 17 years. Physique wise, I have good aesthetics. not that much mass. Unfortunately my clavicles are narrow, so when with clothes people almost cannot tell that I work out. Regarding the skin - a few moths ago I moved into a new building. There, a neighbour thought I was the same age as her son (17 y.o.) I presume this was based on my face and skin appearance, as I was wearing a winter hat, covering my 1/2 bald head).
 
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Sooner or later they are going to start pushing "bald is the new sexy".

They have to, they're running out of other sh1t to push. Lol.
 

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I'm a chick and I say shave your entire head, it's sexy as hell.
One chick out of 3,500,000,000

Here's what the research shows as of March 31, 2022.

>>A shaved head has become a symbol of aggression and toughness. It takes a man of confidence to display a shorn head. According to the research – guys with shaved heads are also seen as 13% stronger, taller and having greater leadership potential than guys with a full head or thinning hair.<<
One article out of 3,500,000,000
 

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This 1000%. Be confident about being bald. Goes without saying you can't be fat and look sloppy either. Lift, eat smart, drink plenty of water, supreme level of skin care, and dress well.

I'm no Chad, but I get plenty of IOIs these days and I'm bald. If anything, it'll set you apart from the rest of the crowd and make you stand out.
Fortune to not experience it. I'm closer to forty then I am 20. Early 30s. I love my golden locks but, I always have the intent to shave it should the time come. And thank god it never did. The point is made by Mystery in the game; "balding isn't a choice. Bald is."

Op either 1. Shave it or 2. Get hair plugs or a transplant. Stfu. Take it on the chin. Dust yourself off. Go get girls.

Would again use role models who are successful bald men yet considered attractive (Dwayne Johnson, Jason Statham, Bruce Willis, etc). Learn pickup. Follow rsd Tyler (preferably the old underground archive you can find online). The dude batted way the F out of his league. Market leader. High functioning autism spectrum. Balding to the point he cant save it.

Follow Vadim honest signalz. Have a frame of reference for success &&& go live it. Have a process and execute.

The soundtrack of my mind is always chanting my Ws. Reframe past Ws. It's why infield that's legit is awesome. It's why you want receipts. You want nudes &&&& vids of your taking your D out & beating it rotten.

I'm that guy. I'm always that guy regardless of the outcome or whether or not women aware. Herein lies the game.
 

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They had some nice archetypes in Breaking Bald:

abVbp38_700b.jpg

As others have said, you can always keep it trimmed short. Having to get a haircut twice a month would suck though, I'm glad I'm not at that point yet.
 
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They had some nice archetypes in Breaking Bald:

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As others have said, you can always keep it trimmed short. Having to get a haircut twice a month would suck though, I'm glad I'm not at that point yet.

All those guys are amazing actors. Especially Walt's character. Pinkman was never bald. It's just a buzz cut.
 

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Hello forum members.


I have been reading here for the last year and finally decided to post. I am not sure if I have seen yet such a topic, even though there were a few mentions in some posts.


So to cut it short - what do you think is the most optimal game that a male with thinning/fully bald head should run?
I know it sounds weird, but during cold approach you cannot use the same game as the pretty peacocking dude with long hair, since it will look bizarre. Also, women might be a bit intimated at first.


I am a 33 y.o. male, mostly did social circle game and had some success with social media. However, I want to learn and start using cold approach. My hair started thinning in my early 20s and now is pretty much gone.



Thanks for your time and regards,
Smooth_texter
Get ripped. Where tight t-shirts and maybe one good tatoo on your right or left arm. Then just go to bars/clubs and run nightclub game. Seems easy to me. I used to see bald guys like that clean up all the time. You have to get in good shape though it seems.
 

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Get ripped. Where tight t-shirts and maybe one good tatoo on your right or left arm. Then just go to bars/clubs and run nightclub game. Seems easy to me. I used to see bald guys like that clean up all the time. You have to get in good shape though it seems.

Hi zinc4.

Thanks for the tips.

Regarding being ripped - I have had visible abs yearly for the last 17 years (since sixteen). But the "ripped, dry look" that most people refer to is usually obtained by juicing. I am not going to risk my long term health (50s/60s) for s*x or female validation. Tattoos would be incongruent with my personality (unless I fully reinvent myself).


I think that baldness is not an issue, I am just facing the same issues as many single men in their thirties - the breaking up of social circles, combined with remote working. I have to socialise and start running game.
 

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I have a big, wide bald spot at the top, but my hairline is still quite good & plush. I'll never know if chicks have rejected me for that (i.e., since they never say I'm not interested in you because of your bald spot), but the few chicks I have gotten seem to say that the plush front makes up for the bald top. The bald spot is not visible when looking straight at me, but rather when looking at me from the back.
 

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I have a big, wide bald spot at the top, but my hairline is still quite good & plush. I'll never know if chicks have rejected me for that (i.e., since they never say I'm not interested in you because of your bald spot), but the few chicks I have gotten seem to say that the plush front makes up for the bald top. The bald spot is not visible when looking straight at me, but rather when looking at me from the back.
I have a bald spot on top also. Ok hair all around it.

If I stand only, keep my back to a wall, never leave to go to the bathroom, and only talk to short chicks, I’m good.
 

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Maybe get involved in sports or activities where women are present. It's common in your 30s to shift social circles because a lot of people are settling down in serious relationships and having children.
 
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