"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bailed Out On Getting Head<Got Nervous

SexinEar

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So this girl ive been messing with that I don't really like was pretty much begging me to let her suck my d.ck. For the first time in as long as I can remember I got nervous. My d.ck went compleatley flat and I just bailed out. I donno why I just compleatley froze. I donno what im gonna do, I felt like it was a doctors office penis check experence and I just got turned off in a second. How am I gonna deal? thanks

PS- never gotten head obvously
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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tyguy

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let her suck your ****, man...

like a buddy of mine always told me, "Even the worst head I ever got was great."
 

SexinEar

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I kno but I don't want it to be so flat from the start. I was just nervous and my flacid went downhill. I'll get over it hopefully.
 

dannowillbookem

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if u focus on getting an erection, it never happens. if you focus on the moment... tell yourself you arent even gonna get to orgasm, youre just messing around. focus on her breasts, her nipples, the softness of her skin, the firmness of her rear, the sexiness of her wet lowers. enjoy kissing her, her feeling you down, etc; if the erection comes, you might get weak and relent to getting jacked, head, or screwing. if it doesnt, you werent aiming for it anyways. but your aim is not sex, its just having a good time.

obviously i have the problem.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Docs

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Let her suck it. I dont' know why you're scared, it's like having sex for the first time and you aren't sure what to do exactly, let her lead and enjoy. =)
 

KillaCam

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Don't wonder. Don't analyse. Don't even think. Just do it.
 

Obie

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Does she look pretty good? Let her suck your c0ck!
 
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