Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Bailed Out On Getting Head<Got Nervous

SexinEar

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So this girl ive been messing with that I don't really like was pretty much begging me to let her suck my d.ck. For the first time in as long as I can remember I got nervous. My d.ck went compleatley flat and I just bailed out. I donno why I just compleatley froze. I donno what im gonna do, I felt like it was a doctors office penis check experence and I just got turned off in a second. How am I gonna deal? thanks

PS- never gotten head obvously
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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tyguy

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let her suck your ****, man...

like a buddy of mine always told me, "Even the worst head I ever got was great."
 

SexinEar

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I kno but I don't want it to be so flat from the start. I was just nervous and my flacid went downhill. I'll get over it hopefully.
 

dannowillbookem

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if u focus on getting an erection, it never happens. if you focus on the moment... tell yourself you arent even gonna get to orgasm, youre just messing around. focus on her breasts, her nipples, the softness of her skin, the firmness of her rear, the sexiness of her wet lowers. enjoy kissing her, her feeling you down, etc; if the erection comes, you might get weak and relent to getting jacked, head, or screwing. if it doesnt, you werent aiming for it anyways. but your aim is not sex, its just having a good time.

obviously i have the problem.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Docs

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Let her suck it. I dont' know why you're scared, it's like having sex for the first time and you aren't sure what to do exactly, let her lead and enjoy. =)
 

KillaCam

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Don't wonder. Don't analyse. Don't even think. Just do it.
 

Obie

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Does she look pretty good? Let her suck your c0ck!
 
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