I've moved out to a new city, it's been 2 months but i still haven't made any friends that i can call up to do something, it's just a bad nite... i'm feeling so down because it's 8pm, and i don't have anything to do, i'm 18 so goin out to a bar is out of question... and i used to go out to party every weekend before i moved here... i feel so depressed cuz i'm bored, and haven't parties in 2 months... i'm thinking of goin to these online dating sites rite now, but the only people who would be left to chat on a saturday nite would be losers anyways.. oh god, i'm gonna have to go rent a movie again and watch it....
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
bad nite
- Thread starter titoman
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GSXR600
Don Juan
is there any 18 and over clubs where your at? Also craigslist is a good spot to find you some wingmen. Do you have any cool neibors, hang with them.
RaWBLooD
Master Don Juan
whats a craiglist????
most clubs are 19+ so u can see his dillema, unfortunately he has to wait till 19.
titoman i suggest tryin not to feel so down and just try to talk people at coffee shops and stuff, its not that hard, and if u jsut moved there and got no one near by, goin 2 gym u can make a good friend by spotting sum1.
its not likely youll have so many parties as where u lived before for a while, so make a trip up there every other month so u dont feel so alone.
yeah that's what i did a month ago rawblood, went down there to party lol... so i'm thinking of making that trip again...
by the way, is there anybody in a similar situation like mine, bored to death in a new place.. how do you deal with it???
by the way, is there anybody in a similar situation like mine, bored to death in a new place.. how do you deal with it???
white cloud 8
Senior Don Juan
dude...get a membership @ a gym, r u in school right now? meet a *TON* of people there or just go out and be social, it doesn't have to be a nightclub .
."How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i agree with whitecloud
i know i do work out a at a gym, there isn't much people, i got some guys emails from work like 4 of them, i'm pretty social at work, and everybody says i'm the funniest guy alive!!! but when i talked to those guys online, and ask them what they are doin, they either don't respond, or they are like nothing's goin on and just sign off...
RaWBLooD
Master Don Juan
he might not be in school.Originally posted by white cloud 8
dude...get a membership @ a gym, r u in school right now? meet a *TON* of people there or just go out and be social, it doesn't have to be a nightclub
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Marlimus
Senior Don Juan
keep your head up, youngblood, we all feel down sometimes, I've been there. Just snap out of it and find ways to meet people.