"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bad mistake you made with a woman

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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f283000

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Bible_Belt said:
You mean telling that to any girl, unless she says it first and you are just saying "I know" in reply like Han Solo in star wars.
FYP :D

My bad mistakes with women have always involved text messaging. I ruined it with 4 attractive gals who showed interest in me first, gave me the signals and everything but I killed things with text messages (2 who were very very hot).

I guess i needed to get my butt kicked in this game to finally learn my lesson and to avoid interacting with women with text messages. Whether it be over the phone or facebook/myspace etc. I had to man up and start calling them as my main means of communication rather than texts.
 

Deadly_Ripped

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I believed her when she told me that she wanted to marry me and have kids with me, and started assuming that's how things would end up.... a few months later she broke up with me.
 

DanelMadr

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I was on a date with a girl who kept sending me mixed signals.
We went to an Irish pub and I suddenly realized I have to take a shyt. When I returned we continued in our conversation.
In one moment I was just sitting there silently and she asked me:
"What are you thinking about?"
and I honestly answered, probably because I was pissed at her and didn't want to tell her "About You, of course". So I told her: "I'm thinking if I need to go to take a shyt again." That was the last nail, heh:p
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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freshprince

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I've made so many bloody mistakes when it comes to women but my most recent one was underestimating a hot chick who i thought was different, honest and innocent and as a result i let my guard down and opened up to her. I then found out that she was just using me to make her ex boyfriend jealous since we had a confrontation a while back and it worked she is now back with him. I felt like a bloody *****, lower than dirt!
 
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