"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bad mistake you made with a woman

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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f283000

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Bible_Belt said:
You mean telling that to any girl, unless she says it first and you are just saying "I know" in reply like Han Solo in star wars.
FYP :D

My bad mistakes with women have always involved text messaging. I ruined it with 4 attractive gals who showed interest in me first, gave me the signals and everything but I killed things with text messages (2 who were very very hot).

I guess i needed to get my butt kicked in this game to finally learn my lesson and to avoid interacting with women with text messages. Whether it be over the phone or facebook/myspace etc. I had to man up and start calling them as my main means of communication rather than texts.
 

Deadly_Ripped

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I believed her when she told me that she wanted to marry me and have kids with me, and started assuming that's how things would end up.... a few months later she broke up with me.
 

DanelMadr

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I was on a date with a girl who kept sending me mixed signals.
We went to an Irish pub and I suddenly realized I have to take a shyt. When I returned we continued in our conversation.
In one moment I was just sitting there silently and she asked me:
"What are you thinking about?"
and I honestly answered, probably because I was pissed at her and didn't want to tell her "About You, of course". So I told her: "I'm thinking if I need to go to take a shyt again." That was the last nail, heh:p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've made so many bloody mistakes when it comes to women but my most recent one was underestimating a hot chick who i thought was different, honest and innocent and as a result i let my guard down and opened up to her. I then found out that she was just using me to make her ex boyfriend jealous since we had a confrontation a while back and it worked she is now back with him. I felt like a bloody *****, lower than dirt!
 
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