Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
You mean telling that to any girl, unless she says it first and you are just saying it back in a polite but yet non-heartfelt manner.MainDroite said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Bad mistake you made with a woman
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
FYPBible_Belt said:
My bad mistakes with women have always involved text messaging. I ruined it with 4 attractive gals who showed interest in me first, gave me the signals and everything but I killed things with text messages (2 who were very very hot).
I guess i needed to get my butt kicked in this game to finally learn my lesson and to avoid interacting with women with text messages. Whether it be over the phone or facebook/myspace etc. I had to man up and start calling them as my main means of communication rather than texts.
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I once asked a chick if she was on the pill and believed her answer.
Deadly_Ripped
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I believed her when she told me that she wanted to marry me and have kids with me, and started assuming that's how things would end up.... a few months later she broke up with me.
I was on a date with a girl who kept sending me mixed signals.
We went to an Irish pub and I suddenly realized I have to take a shyt. When I returned we continued in our conversation.
In one moment I was just sitting there silently and she asked me:
"What are you thinking about?"
and I honestly answered, probably because I was pissed at her and didn't want to tell her "About You, of course". So I told her: "I'm thinking if I need to go to take a shyt again." That was the last nail, heh
We went to an Irish pub and I suddenly realized I have to take a shyt. When I returned we continued in our conversation.
In one moment I was just sitting there silently and she asked me:
"What are you thinking about?"
and I honestly answered, probably because I was pissed at her and didn't want to tell her "About You, of course". So I told her: "I'm thinking if I need to go to take a shyt again." That was the last nail, heh
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
freshprince
Don Juan
HAHAHAHAHAHA not that is hilarious
freshprince
Don Juan
I've made so many bloody mistakes when it comes to women but my most recent one was underestimating a hot chick who i thought was different, honest and innocent and as a result i let my guard down and opened up to her. I then found out that she was just using me to make her ex boyfriend jealous since we had a confrontation a while back and it worked she is now back with him. I felt like a bloody *****, lower than dirt!