Bad first date

[zinc4]

We met at a resturaunt near the beach. A russian chick. She had demanded a fancy place and this was only one i wanted to go to.

She shows up....is bangable but too skinny for me to daye seriously and not pretty enough.

Right off the bat the energy is low. I can tell we arent clicking.

We make boring small talk and she tells me she has a complex about Americans. I dont like her but id still like to hate **** her once. After an hour or so she says her friend is walking on the beach and she will join her.

Cancun mexico and playa del carmen suck for women guys.....dont go here. I have had some sucess but also was held up at gunpoint by low member cartel members a feleeced and alloney stolen from pice twice. Not to mention both places are giant ****fests in general. If you go to a bar stay as low key as possible when dancing. There are low level cartel everywhere watching and they dont like it when you take over the floor with good dance game. I suppose they cant compete. They just sit at their tables drinking tequila bottles and whatnot
****roaches. I could destroy any one on one.

Anyways i texted her 3 days later and said i wasnt feeling it and it was boring. Also said her energy seems trapped up.high she should practice on lowering it and i met a nice mexican girl (which i did) and would rather pursue that.

So she texts back that she just didnt like me and thought it was obvious. And she met an awesome American guy right after me that she likes.....lol

Then she says you should work on yourself before telling other people ****. ........lol then blocked me right away.

Now my text to her was a little malicious you can say....bit there is a reason for that....it really pissed me off how right before the bill was coming she just gets up abruptly and says she is going to.meet her friend.

This part of mexico is so bad for meeting women. I have given up. Its basically like being a ****ty part of the us. I have met some stunners who loved me but they are all from different cities and had to move back.

Anyways im flying to Columbia this upcoming week. Got a snorkeling trip on Tuesday and just chilling until then.

 

[zinc4]

I mean my pockets were searched by police twice and money stolen....police are really bad here they are thugs themselves abs carry machine guns

 

[RBK]

"Demanded a fancy place". This should have been red flag #1 and I would of bailed at the even ask of that.

 

[zinc4]

I should have pulled my old trick and said excuse me i need to use the restroom....then bounced and left her with the check lol but money is not really an object for me now....i kind of legit hate this chick actually.....she comes off as ber pretentious as well. Would have been nice to out of spite lol.

 

[zinc4]

"Demanded a fancy place". This should have been red flag #1 and I would of bailed at the even ask of that.

It was man....i straight up stood her up the first date lol... we kept in touch for weeks after then i finally decided to give her a chance lol because the ****fest her sucks

 

[zinc4]

Cant wait to get to Columbia honestly. Columbian women are way hotter than Mexican women are arent nearly as complicated to deal with.

I will miss the easy lifestyle and drugs here though. You can get anything you want here for dirt cheap. Prob will be good for me to go clean for a while though.

 

[MoMoses]

We met at a resturaunt near the beach. A russian chick. She had demanded a fancy place and

What and? She lost all of us at "demanding a fancy place". I wouldn't have bothered meeting her. The vibe was off from the start and this will never go anywhere.

Right off the bat the energy is low. I can tell we arent clicking.

This is shocking information. She sounded like such a delightful young lady

Anyways i texted her 3 days later and said i wasnt feeling it and it was boring.

Why? Why would you give her the pleasure of knowing you were still thinking off her 3 days later? You didn't just pay for her food and fed her, you now fed her ego aswell and that one's always hungry. Bimbo's like this only respond to starvation.

And telling her you met a nice Mexican woman may very well be true, but she will think you're making this up to get at her. Again.. delicious ego feeding. She will have had a kick out of this one and will have send a screenshot to her ogre girlfriends

I get why you did this man, but never do that again. I've done things like this is aswell and the only reason you're doing this is because your ego is a bit insulted (again, I get that) and you want a fast fix by having a jab at her.

The biggest jab you can have at girls like this is to just ignore their existence.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You lost when she demanded something and you gave in.

 

[zinc4]

You lost when she demanded something and you gave in.

Yeah...i pretty much knew that going in but said but said **** it. Broke my own rules. Never again.

 

[zinc4]

What and? She lost all of us at "demanding a fancy place". I wouldn't have bothered meeting her. The vibe was off from the start and this will never go anywhere.



This is shocking information. She sounded like such a delightful young lady




Why? Why would you give her the pleasure of knowing you were still thinking off her 3 days later? You didn't just pay for her food and fed her, you now fed her ego aswell and that one's always hungry. Bimbo's like this only respond to starvation.

And telling her you met a nice Mexican woman may very well be true, but she will think you're making this up to get at her. Again.. delicious ego feeding. She will have had a kick out of this one and will have send a screenshot to her ogre girlfriends

I get why you did this man, but never do that again. I've done things like this is aswell and the only reason you're doing this is because your ego is a bit insulted (again, I get that) and you want a fast fix by having a jab at her.

The biggest jab you can have at girls like this is to just ignore their existence.

Yeah you are prob right. Ego got the best of me. Also my strong dislike of her. Really annoyed me how she walked off right before the bill. Entitled *****.

It must have gotten to her a bit though because she had to throw in that she me an awesome American that she likes lol.

 

[zinc4]

Anyways i had great sex with a really hot Mexican chick last night for a few hours so whatever...no one that i would date....has too many tatoos and just seems skanky but hot.

 

[MoMoses]

Yeah you are prob right. Ego got the best of me. Also my strong dislike of her. Really annoyed me how she walked off right before the bill. Entitled *****.

Yeah, been guilty of this too you know.

But to add something else to this thread.. not to be racist... I've never met an enjoyable Russian or Ukrainian chick. I'm sure there are nice Russian girls out there and god knows.. a lot of them are so fine! But it's a cultural thing I think. A lot of them are rude to waiters, are very demanding and like the bling bling if you know what I mean.

Maybe it's because I never been to Russia before and I only had experience with Russians who visit my country or the Russians I've met in Turkey, Cuba and Spain. Those are Russians with money and hence an attitude. They're used to acting entitled in their own country too. Or so I have been told by a Turkish friend of mine.

 

[zinc4]

Yeah....her personality was non existent. Like a boring robot and kind of bitchy. Honestly id like to slap her in the face. Women like that need to be taught lessons. Something about her really pissed me off. Even bad mouthed Americans in front of me. Women like that need to just be manhandled. I was way too nice.

 

[bat soup]

We met at a resturaunt near the beach. A russian chick. She had demanded a fancy place and this was only one i wanted to go to.

She shows up....is bangable but too skinny for me to daye seriously and not pretty enough.

Right off the bat the energy is low. I can tell we arent clicking.

We make boring small talk and she tells me she has a complex about Americans. I dont like her but id still like to hate **** her once. After an hour or so she says her friend is walking on the beach and she will join her.

Cancun mexico and playa del carmen suck for women guys.....dont go here. I have had some sucess but also was held up at gunpoint by low member cartel members a feleeced and alloney stolen from pice twice. Not to mention both places are giant ****fests in general. If you go to a bar stay as low key as possible when dancing. There are low level cartel everywhere watching and they dont like it when you take over the floor with good dance game. I suppose they cant compete. They just sit at their tables drinking tequila bottles and whatnot
****roaches. I could destroy any one on one.

Anyways i texted her 3 days later and said i wasnt feeling it and it was boring. Also said her energy seems trapped up.high she should practice on lowering it and i met a nice mexican girl (which i did) and would rather pursue that.

So she texts back that she just didnt like me and thought it was obvious. And she met an awesome American guy right after me that she likes.....lol

Then she says you should work on yourself before telling other people ****. ........lol then blocked me right away.

Now my text to her was a little malicious you can say....bit there is a reason for that....it really pissed me off how right before the bill was coming she just gets up abruptly and says she is going to.meet her friend.

This part of mexico is so bad for meeting women. I have given up. Its basically like being a ****ty part of the us. I have met some stunners who loved me but they are all from different cities and had to move back.

Anyways im flying to Columbia this upcoming week. Got a snorkeling trip on Tuesday and just chilling until then.

Where you went wrong is by agreeing to meet her at a restaurant in the first place. She just wanted a free meal.

 

[bat soup]

Yeah....her personality was non existent. Like a boring robot and kind of bitchy. Honestly id like to slap her in the face. Women like that need to be taught lessons. Something about her really pissed me off. Even bad mouthed Americans in front of me. Women like that need to just be manhandled. I was way too nice.

The way you deal with women like this is by not dealing with them.

 

[Glassguy]

She had demanded a fancy place

At this point, I would have told her "Nah. We will meet at such and such place". If she pushed back I would have stopped responding.

I dont do "fancy" places for first dates. Or second dates. Those are for relationships and important events.

She would either come into my frame of GTFO.

 

[bat soup]

At this point, I would have told her "Nah. We will meet at such and such place". If she pushed back I would have stopped responding.

I dont do "fancy" places for first dates. Or second dates. Those are for relationships and important events.

She would either come into my frame of GTFO.

100% agree. A woman that insists on going to some fancy place is there for the food, not for you.

 

[RangerMIke]

IMO there is no such thing as a 'bad' first date. You have 1st dates that go forward... and others that end with you not seeing the woman ever again.

It's all good.... you either get progress, or you screen her out.

The purpose of the 1st date is to evaluate the chick... she passes or she fails.... You grade the paper.

 

[Gstring]

WTF m'f'r, circa 2007 and bad dates? Gay!

We met at a resturaunt near the beach. A russian chick. She had demanded a fancy place and this was only one i wanted to go to.

I read this line and decided to quote and reply before I proceed with reading the rest of your post. This means she changed the venue of 1st date and you agreed, so you failed a sht test called an availability trap. AMS has video on this.

She shows up....is bangable but too skinny for me to daye seriously and not pretty enough.

Between she showed up and you deciding she is not enough for you.. You must have dipped your dck into ice cold water so that it becomes smaller and your testicles shrink, and you become more beta.. You failed her sht test. For her you are beta. Betas don't have a dck. So it's totally fine if you have a short penis. Relax.

We make boring small talk and she tells me she has a complex about Americans.

She has a complex about beta males that fail her sht tests. Enough with your cries.

You did not fk her, you end up masturbating. Don't fail sht tests. Doesn't matter if she is from Russia or from California, all women are the same. They fk alphas and betas like you end up masturbating.

 

[Lookatu]

IMO there is no such thing as a 'bad' first date. You have 1st dates that go forward... and others that end with you not seeing the woman ever again.

The purpose of the 1st date is to evaluate the chick... she passes or she fails.... You grade the paper.

I generally agree with this however bad dates to me happen when a guy has a bad feeling and allows himself to go through with wasting his time on someone he knows was a failure before he even started. That's his fault of course and the reason why it goes from a "neutral evaluation" date to a "bad" date because you basically evaluated her already but still kept going.