Everything I did today was a faliure. In the evening when I asked seven girls to give me their phone numbers, none of them gave me their phone numbers. To me this is really weird because I NEVER faced this type of situation where 7 girls refused to give me their phone numbers. Any of you guys faced this type of evenings when every girl you talked seem to reject you.:trouble: :trouble::trouble:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Bad Day For Me
- Thread starter Moon Ram
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
nismo-4
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I've had 10 all turn me down. Mot only that I had a time when I got turned down 7 times, got a date with the next person, then she turns me down 3 days later.
I now spend all my time watching reruns of Full house, Fresh Prince, Family Matters, Frasier, and Friends as well as networking on myspace. It seems that I have to be rich and famous to get a girl to reciprocate. I've had worse failures than you. Nowadays, I can sense when one is coming (future sight), then I take off running after quickly killing the conversation.
Bad luck's a motherf**ker!
I now spend all my time watching reruns of Full house, Fresh Prince, Family Matters, Frasier, and Friends as well as networking on myspace. It seems that I have to be rich and famous to get a girl to reciprocate. I've had worse failures than you. Nowadays, I can sense when one is coming (future sight), then I take off running after quickly killing the conversation.
Bad luck's a motherf**ker!
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Some days you bat 1000 some day's you're at 0. It happen but then again I don't exacty "shot gun" for girls anymore. I prefer toooo....sniper i guess you could sayin that I may not ask EVERY girl I meet for her number but I have a good feeling usually about the ones i do go for.
DonGorgon
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Its a hard world for all men except celebs and models..LOL
DJ React
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Are you trying to initiate conversations with these girls, or are you just running around asking any female for their number?
Try establishing some sort of decent conversation before shooting for the number.
Try establishing some sort of decent conversation before shooting for the number.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
L777
Master Don Juan
You're such an AFC...DonGorgon said:
To the OP. If you got out there and did the damn thing then it wasn't a failure.
Every other guy wouldn't have had it in them to ask 7 girls for their number...you at least got some approaching practice in, which will help you out for next time.