Everything I did today was a faliure. In the evening when I asked seven girls to give me their phone numbers, none of them gave me their phone numbers. To me this is really weird because I NEVER faced this type of situation where 7 girls refused to give me their phone numbers. Any of you guys faced this type of evenings when every girl you talked seem to reject you.:trouble: :trouble::trouble:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bad Day For Me
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
nismo-4
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I've had 10 all turn me down. Mot only that I had a time when I got turned down 7 times, got a date with the next person, then she turns me down 3 days later.
I now spend all my time watching reruns of Full house, Fresh Prince, Family Matters, Frasier, and Friends as well as networking on myspace. It seems that I have to be rich and famous to get a girl to reciprocate. I've had worse failures than you. Nowadays, I can sense when one is coming (future sight), then I take off running after quickly killing the conversation.
Bad luck's a motherf**ker!
I now spend all my time watching reruns of Full house, Fresh Prince, Family Matters, Frasier, and Friends as well as networking on myspace. It seems that I have to be rich and famous to get a girl to reciprocate. I've had worse failures than you. Nowadays, I can sense when one is coming (future sight), then I take off running after quickly killing the conversation.
Bad luck's a motherf**ker!
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Some days you bat 1000 some day's you're at 0. It happen but then again I don't exacty "shot gun" for girls anymore. I prefer toooo....sniper i guess you could sayin that I may not ask EVERY girl I meet for her number but I have a good feeling usually about the ones i do go for.
DonGorgon
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Its a hard world for all men except celebs and models..LOL
DJ React
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Are you trying to initiate conversations with these girls, or are you just running around asking any female for their number?
Try establishing some sort of decent conversation before shooting for the number.
Try establishing some sort of decent conversation before shooting for the number.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
L777
Master Don Juan
You're such an AFC...DonGorgon said:
To the OP. If you got out there and did the damn thing then it wasn't a failure.
Every other guy wouldn't have had it in them to ask 7 girls for their number...you at least got some approaching practice in, which will help you out for next time.