Everything I did today was a faliure. In the evening when I asked seven girls to give me their phone numbers, none of them gave me their phone numbers. To me this is really weird because I NEVER faced this type of situation where 7 girls refused to give me their phone numbers. Any of you guys faced this type of evenings when every girl you talked seem to reject you.:trouble: :trouble::trouble:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Bad Day For Me
- Thread starter Moon Ram
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
nismo-4
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I've had 10 all turn me down. Mot only that I had a time when I got turned down 7 times, got a date with the next person, then she turns me down 3 days later.
I now spend all my time watching reruns of Full house, Fresh Prince, Family Matters, Frasier, and Friends as well as networking on myspace. It seems that I have to be rich and famous to get a girl to reciprocate. I've had worse failures than you. Nowadays, I can sense when one is coming (future sight), then I take off running after quickly killing the conversation.
Bad luck's a motherf**ker!
I now spend all my time watching reruns of Full house, Fresh Prince, Family Matters, Frasier, and Friends as well as networking on myspace. It seems that I have to be rich and famous to get a girl to reciprocate. I've had worse failures than you. Nowadays, I can sense when one is coming (future sight), then I take off running after quickly killing the conversation.
Bad luck's a motherf**ker!
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Some days you bat 1000 some day's you're at 0. It happen but then again I don't exacty "shot gun" for girls anymore. I prefer toooo....sniper i guess you could sayin that I may not ask EVERY girl I meet for her number but I have a good feeling usually about the ones i do go for.
DonGorgon
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Its a hard world for all men except celebs and models..LOL
DJ React
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Are you trying to initiate conversations with these girls, or are you just running around asking any female for their number?
Try establishing some sort of decent conversation before shooting for the number.
Try establishing some sort of decent conversation before shooting for the number.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
L777
Master Don Juan
You're such an AFC...DonGorgon said:
To the OP. If you got out there and did the damn thing then it wasn't a failure.
Every other guy wouldn't have had it in them to ask 7 girls for their number...you at least got some approaching practice in, which will help you out for next time.