Everything I did today was a faliure. In the evening when I asked seven girls to give me their phone numbers, none of them gave me their phone numbers. To me this is really weird because I NEVER faced this type of situation where 7 girls refused to give me their phone numbers. Any of you guys faced this type of evenings when every girl you talked seem to reject you.:trouble: :trouble::trouble:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Bad Day For Me
- Thread starter Moon Ram
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
nismo-4
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I've had 10 all turn me down. Mot only that I had a time when I got turned down 7 times, got a date with the next person, then she turns me down 3 days later.
I now spend all my time watching reruns of Full house, Fresh Prince, Family Matters, Frasier, and Friends as well as networking on myspace. It seems that I have to be rich and famous to get a girl to reciprocate. I've had worse failures than you. Nowadays, I can sense when one is coming (future sight), then I take off running after quickly killing the conversation.
Bad luck's a motherf**ker!
I now spend all my time watching reruns of Full house, Fresh Prince, Family Matters, Frasier, and Friends as well as networking on myspace. It seems that I have to be rich and famous to get a girl to reciprocate. I've had worse failures than you. Nowadays, I can sense when one is coming (future sight), then I take off running after quickly killing the conversation.
Bad luck's a motherf**ker!
PRMoon
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Some days you bat 1000 some day's you're at 0. It happen but then again I don't exacty "shot gun" for girls anymore. I prefer toooo....sniper i guess you could sayin that I may not ask EVERY girl I meet for her number but I have a good feeling usually about the ones i do go for.
DonGorgon
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Its a hard world for all men except celebs and models..LOL
DJ React
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Are you trying to initiate conversations with these girls, or are you just running around asking any female for their number?
Try establishing some sort of decent conversation before shooting for the number.
Try establishing some sort of decent conversation before shooting for the number.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
L777
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You're such an AFC...DonGorgon said:
To the OP. If you got out there and did the damn thing then it wasn't a failure.
Every other guy wouldn't have had it in them to ask 7 girls for their number...you at least got some approaching practice in, which will help you out for next time.