"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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BAD date on POF - got the truth from her

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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pdx1138

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well, women in general prefer someone with nice teeth.

A friend of mine had a tooth missing on the front side which showed when he smiled....whenever we double dated, his date would tell my date....he needs to find his missing tooth.

He got it fixed though and ever since....it's not been a problem or commented on.

His confidence is way higher now knowing that gap is not there.
 

joverby

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Did you really need to do that detective work to find out you should get your teeth fixed? You really didn't know appearances mattered before you found this out? Do you not care about appearances?

I guess do whatever works for you but I probably wouldn't reccommend one of my friends to do something like this. I would give him the same advice everyone gives here, it's not healthy to dwell on someone you don't even know like that. Chalk it up as a loss, move on and try to improve yourself.(Appearance as well)

Obviously do whatever works for you but don't know if it's really the healthiest thing to do.
 

Iceberg

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Ugh. Guys, he's a troll.

And obviously a bored troll...with lots and lots of free time on his hands.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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joverby

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Iceberg said:
Ugh. Guys, he's a troll.

And obviously a bored troll...with lots and lots of free time on his hands.
Didn't see his previous threads or I wouldn't of posted. Thanks for the heads up.
 
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