"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BAD date on POF - got the truth from her

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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pdx1138

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well, women in general prefer someone with nice teeth.

A friend of mine had a tooth missing on the front side which showed when he smiled....whenever we double dated, his date would tell my date....he needs to find his missing tooth.

He got it fixed though and ever since....it's not been a problem or commented on.

His confidence is way higher now knowing that gap is not there.
 

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Did you really need to do that detective work to find out you should get your teeth fixed? You really didn't know appearances mattered before you found this out? Do you not care about appearances?

I guess do whatever works for you but I probably wouldn't reccommend one of my friends to do something like this. I would give him the same advice everyone gives here, it's not healthy to dwell on someone you don't even know like that. Chalk it up as a loss, move on and try to improve yourself.(Appearance as well)

Obviously do whatever works for you but don't know if it's really the healthiest thing to do.
 

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Ugh. Guys, he's a troll.

And obviously a bored troll...with lots and lots of free time on his hands.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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joverby

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Iceberg said:
Ugh. Guys, he's a troll.

And obviously a bored troll...with lots and lots of free time on his hands.
Didn't see his previous threads or I wouldn't of posted. Thanks for the heads up.
 
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