"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BAD date on POF - got the truth from her

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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well, women in general prefer someone with nice teeth.

A friend of mine had a tooth missing on the front side which showed when he smiled....whenever we double dated, his date would tell my date....he needs to find his missing tooth.

He got it fixed though and ever since....it's not been a problem or commented on.

His confidence is way higher now knowing that gap is not there.
 
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Did you really need to do that detective work to find out you should get your teeth fixed? You really didn't know appearances mattered before you found this out? Do you not care about appearances?

I guess do whatever works for you but I probably wouldn't reccommend one of my friends to do something like this. I would give him the same advice everyone gives here, it's not healthy to dwell on someone you don't even know like that. Chalk it up as a loss, move on and try to improve yourself.(Appearance as well)

Obviously do whatever works for you but don't know if it's really the healthiest thing to do.
 
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Ugh. Guys, he's a troll.

And obviously a bored troll...with lots and lots of free time on his hands.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Iceberg said:
Ugh. Guys, he's a troll.

And obviously a bored troll...with lots and lots of free time on his hands.
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Didn't see his previous threads or I wouldn't of posted. Thanks for the heads up.
 
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