"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BAD date on POF - got the truth from her

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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pdx1138

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well, women in general prefer someone with nice teeth.

A friend of mine had a tooth missing on the front side which showed when he smiled....whenever we double dated, his date would tell my date....he needs to find his missing tooth.

He got it fixed though and ever since....it's not been a problem or commented on.

His confidence is way higher now knowing that gap is not there.
 

joverby

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Did you really need to do that detective work to find out you should get your teeth fixed? You really didn't know appearances mattered before you found this out? Do you not care about appearances?

I guess do whatever works for you but I probably wouldn't reccommend one of my friends to do something like this. I would give him the same advice everyone gives here, it's not healthy to dwell on someone you don't even know like that. Chalk it up as a loss, move on and try to improve yourself.(Appearance as well)

Obviously do whatever works for you but don't know if it's really the healthiest thing to do.
 

Iceberg

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Ugh. Guys, he's a troll.

And obviously a bored troll...with lots and lots of free time on his hands.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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joverby

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Iceberg said:
Ugh. Guys, he's a troll.

And obviously a bored troll...with lots and lots of free time on his hands.
Didn't see his previous threads or I wouldn't of posted. Thanks for the heads up.
 
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