new date today, all was well, however, the breath...hers not mine! man it wasnt good. and this was on a date...christ knows what morning breath might have been like. she didnt smoke, wasnt smokers breath. how the f ccuk do you tell someone they smell like they have rimmed a dog?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bad breath boner killer
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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ah... very sensitive issue.
You can offer her gum, or use breath wraps while you're with her. I don't think you can ever tell that to the face of beautiful creature, I can't anyway
You can offer her gum, or use breath wraps while you're with her. I don't think you can ever tell that to the face of beautiful creature, I can't anyway
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Maybe she has a condition that makes it bad?
betheman said:
i think its the tongue that is usually the problem. you gotta scrape it, especially the back and get all the gunk and debris off so its pink and not white. if not, the bacteria build up and thats what you smell
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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ohh. I am so paranoid about that ****e that when im gonna go on a date. I start brushing my teeth like 4 o 5 times a day since the day before, including flossing and tongue scrapping to. on the date if dinner i always make sure to go to bathroom a wash mouth well before leaving.
breath mints are temporary.
i'd say is either a condition or bad hygiene. girls are so sensitive to smells so it's usually the guy with the bad breath even in T.V.
breath mints are temporary.
i'd say is either a condition or bad hygiene. girls are so sensitive to smells so it's usually the guy with the bad breath even in T.V.
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Get a travel toothbrush (folds in half) and put a dab of toothpaste on it before you leave for your date. Keep it in your pocket and at the end of dinner go to the restroom and brush your teeth/tongue. Fold it back up, back in pocket, she will have no clue and your breath will be fine.
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^i think its 'her' breath thats the problem...not his
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Why be secretive about it?DonJuanabe said:
You are not snorting cocaine in the bathroom, right? I'd just be like,
"Hey, by the way, I'll quickly brush my teeth and come back"...
Double win.
1) You are confident.
2) You pay attention to detail.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.