new date today, all was well, however, the breath...hers not mine! man it wasnt good. and this was on a date...christ knows what morning breath might have been like. she didnt smoke, wasnt smokers breath. how the f ccuk do you tell someone they smell like they have rimmed a dog?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Bad breath boner killer
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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ah... very sensitive issue.
You can offer her gum, or use breath wraps while you're with her. I don't think you can ever tell that to the face of beautiful creature, I can't anyway
You can offer her gum, or use breath wraps while you're with her. I don't think you can ever tell that to the face of beautiful creature, I can't anyway
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Maybe she has a condition that makes it bad?
betheman said:
i think its the tongue that is usually the problem. you gotta scrape it, especially the back and get all the gunk and debris off so its pink and not white. if not, the bacteria build up and thats what you smell
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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ohh. I am so paranoid about that ****e that when im gonna go on a date. I start brushing my teeth like 4 o 5 times a day since the day before, including flossing and tongue scrapping to. on the date if dinner i always make sure to go to bathroom a wash mouth well before leaving.
breath mints are temporary.
i'd say is either a condition or bad hygiene. girls are so sensitive to smells so it's usually the guy with the bad breath even in T.V.
breath mints are temporary.
i'd say is either a condition or bad hygiene. girls are so sensitive to smells so it's usually the guy with the bad breath even in T.V.
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Get a travel toothbrush (folds in half) and put a dab of toothpaste on it before you leave for your date. Keep it in your pocket and at the end of dinner go to the restroom and brush your teeth/tongue. Fold it back up, back in pocket, she will have no clue and your breath will be fine.
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^i think its 'her' breath thats the problem...not his
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Why be secretive about it?DonJuanabe said:
You are not snorting cocaine in the bathroom, right? I'd just be like,
"Hey, by the way, I'll quickly brush my teeth and come back"...
Double win.
1) You are confident.
2) You pay attention to detail.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.