bad AFC move, help

[djaus111000]

hi guys
been following the forum for a while, and have definitely broken out of my AFC ways, except for temporary slips. Heres the situation - latest female prospect, an insecure HB8 has got me bad, ive used c&f made my self the prize and done everything right until tonight, she has made out with a friend of mine on several occasions, most recently about 10 months ago, but he can hve her around his little finger whenever he wants it, and anyways i got the feeling she was into him again, shes said nothing about it then tonight i just said - "you so want [my friend] again dont you" and she came back with a "yeh well sorta", if this wasn't bad enough, i then went onto tell her i didn't wanna see her hurt. BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD, help please, without telling me the obvious to next her

 

[08aisaac]

Um like yeah that was pretty AFC but I guess there's nothing you can do but move on and not make the some mistake next time.

 

[djaus111000]

what you reckon about coming clean with her?

 

[Javelin44]

thought you said about NOT making AFC moves

 

[Jerky Boi]

Dude, if she's interested in your friend, then let it be. Find another chick and move on. You've already kinda messed things up with this girl. Your friend's got her and let him have her. There are tons of other (hotter) girls out there.

 

[redbyte]

Wow. This sounds like my situation right now.

I asked a chick to the formal. She said yes. Then she started dating and making out with my friend. Then they broke up. But hes a DJ, so he can have her whenever he wants. The other day my friend asked her if she wants him back and she "well .. yeah sorta".
If it was any other chick I would next her. But I asked her to the formal and she said yes. I found out later she actually wanted my friend to ask her. So I'm screwed.
Any tips on what to do?

 

[LikRetsam]

You tolerate these situations? That is only going to get you into more of them.

I don't tolerate this drama BS. I never get it either.

 

[Garamin]

this has happened to me a few times before,so i usely give them about 24 hours to come back to me and beg and plead to not be mad with them,or i next there sorry a**.When they do come back,i play with them a little bit to let them know i am the prize,and that they shouldnt do that again or you will be mad with them

 

[redbyte]

Originally posted by LikRetsam
You tolerate these situations? That is only going to get you into more of them.

I don't tolerate this drama BS. I never get it either.

Ok, and for my situation, are you saying I should just tell her the formal is off? Thats rude.

 

[MetalFortress]

Originally posted by redbyte
Ok, and for my situation, are you saying I should just tell her the formal is off? Thats rude.

DUH. Tell her. It's rude of her to lead you on, so be rude back.

 

[djaus111000]

well i've sorted my situation out, didn't talk to her for a few days till she came crawling back then made sure she knew she didn't deserve me, now im just letting it slide and moving on, knowing i'm better than that

 

[crunk]

that my friend is a chick test. a test that u handled pretty poorly i might add! first of all... u must assume she likes you b/c well.... who wouldnt second of all... if ur gunna be tlakin about who she likes , it better be somthing along the lines of " wow, you relaly like me dont you " . u shouldnt sell the idea that ur friend likes her : thats just wrong. neway dont let it bother u , tease her with attention and bust her balls and **** should end up allright
cheers :woo:

 

[djaus111000]

thanks all for getting me through this, its made me a better DJ for sure