“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It seems there always blacksliding with progress in personal endeavours. Whichever avenue of life I alwayschoose to invest growth within I notice a blacksliding of progress. Whether this be in dating, professional, social, etc. One can make progress quickly or subtly, however then take a step back, two forward, one back, etc.

Is this just the equilibrium of our own growth and adjustment to a new reality or is there a way around this?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It seems there always blacksliding with progress in personal endeavours. Whichever avenue of life I alwayschoose to invest growth within I notice a blacksliding of progress. Whether this be in dating, professional, social, etc. One can make progress quickly or subtly, however then take a step back, two forward, one back, etc.

Is this just the equilibrium of our own growth and adjustment to a new reality or is there a way around this?
you've got to learn that life is not a straight line.......life is curved. even space is curved.

you've going to slip and slid. the trick is to keep plugging away and remember.....sometimes with life's calamities ...
there are nuggets of wisdom to learn
 

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Don't worry too much about it, and just take things week by week.
you're up late alien.

will you watch the champions league final saturday? I want liverpool to run through madrid
 
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