"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It seems there always blacksliding with progress in personal endeavours. Whichever avenue of life I alwayschoose to invest growth within I notice a blacksliding of progress. Whether this be in dating, professional, social, etc. One can make progress quickly or subtly, however then take a step back, two forward, one back, etc.

Is this just the equilibrium of our own growth and adjustment to a new reality or is there a way around this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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flowtheory said:
It seems there always blacksliding with progress in personal endeavours. Whichever avenue of life I alwayschoose to invest growth within I notice a blacksliding of progress. Whether this be in dating, professional, social, etc. One can make progress quickly or subtly, however then take a step back, two forward, one back, etc.

Is this just the equilibrium of our own growth and adjustment to a new reality or is there a way around this?
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you've got to learn that life is not a straight line.......life is curved. even space is curved.

you've going to slip and slid. the trick is to keep plugging away and remember.....sometimes with life's calamities ...
there are nuggets of wisdom to learn
 
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deesade said:
Don't worry too much about it, and just take things week by week.
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you're up late alien.

will you watch the champions league final saturday? I want liverpool to run through madrid
 
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