"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It seems there always blacksliding with progress in personal endeavours. Whichever avenue of life I alwayschoose to invest growth within I notice a blacksliding of progress. Whether this be in dating, professional, social, etc. One can make progress quickly or subtly, however then take a step back, two forward, one back, etc.

Is this just the equilibrium of our own growth and adjustment to a new reality or is there a way around this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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flowtheory said:
It seems there always blacksliding with progress in personal endeavours. Whichever avenue of life I alwayschoose to invest growth within I notice a blacksliding of progress. Whether this be in dating, professional, social, etc. One can make progress quickly or subtly, however then take a step back, two forward, one back, etc.

Is this just the equilibrium of our own growth and adjustment to a new reality or is there a way around this?
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you've got to learn that life is not a straight line.......life is curved. even space is curved.

you've going to slip and slid. the trick is to keep plugging away and remember.....sometimes with life's calamities ...
there are nuggets of wisdom to learn
 
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deesade said:
Don't worry too much about it, and just take things week by week.
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you're up late alien.

will you watch the champions league final saturday? I want liverpool to run through madrid
 
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