"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It seems there always blacksliding with progress in personal endeavours. Whichever avenue of life I alwayschoose to invest growth within I notice a blacksliding of progress. Whether this be in dating, professional, social, etc. One can make progress quickly or subtly, however then take a step back, two forward, one back, etc.

Is this just the equilibrium of our own growth and adjustment to a new reality or is there a way around this?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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flowtheory said:
It seems there always blacksliding with progress in personal endeavours. Whichever avenue of life I alwayschoose to invest growth within I notice a blacksliding of progress. Whether this be in dating, professional, social, etc. One can make progress quickly or subtly, however then take a step back, two forward, one back, etc.

Is this just the equilibrium of our own growth and adjustment to a new reality or is there a way around this?
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you've got to learn that life is not a straight line.......life is curved. even space is curved.

you've going to slip and slid. the trick is to keep plugging away and remember.....sometimes with life's calamities ...
there are nuggets of wisdom to learn
 
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deesade said:
Don't worry too much about it, and just take things week by week.
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you're up late alien.

will you watch the champions league final saturday? I want liverpool to run through madrid
 
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