"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bwilled

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OK so for those of you who dont know or havent read my last thread *which i cant find* the girl i was talking to or trying to atleast knows that i like her now and she says she loves me like a brother and we had a chat about us and basicly we want things back to normal but she said she would think about going out with me.... im really trying to get this girl so dont tell me to mvoe on please....so my question is... do i have a chance still/ Am i back in the game to get her
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LearningSlowly

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Bwilled said:
im really trying to get this girl so dont tell me to mvoe on please....so my question is... do i have a chance still
No chance. What you should do is [CENSORED BY REQUEST OF OP].
 

alxrose04

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First, take this as a learning experience. Try to see what happened. Try to see what you did that caused her to see you like a brother. Were you just really nice to her all the time? Did you not show her your sexual/playful side? As for having a shot with her, you don't have to the best chance right now. Maybe somewhere in the distant future after she doesn't see you for a while and gets to see you in a different light but right now, it's looking tough.
 
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