"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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OK so for those of you who dont know or havent read my last thread *which i cant find* the girl i was talking to or trying to atleast knows that i like her now and she says she loves me like a brother and we had a chat about us and basicly we want things back to normal but she said she would think about going out with me.... im really trying to get this girl so dont tell me to mvoe on please....so my question is... do i have a chance still/ Am i back in the game to get her
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Bwilled said:
im really trying to get this girl so dont tell me to mvoe on please....so my question is... do i have a chance still
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No chance. What you should do is [CENSORED BY REQUEST OF OP].
 
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First, take this as a learning experience. Try to see what happened. Try to see what you did that caused her to see you like a brother. Were you just really nice to her all the time? Did you not show her your sexual/playful side? As for having a shot with her, you don't have to the best chance right now. Maybe somewhere in the distant future after she doesn't see you for a while and gets to see you in a different light but right now, it's looking tough.
 
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