"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bwilled

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OK so for those of you who dont know or havent read my last thread *which i cant find* the girl i was talking to or trying to atleast knows that i like her now and she says she loves me like a brother and we had a chat about us and basicly we want things back to normal but she said she would think about going out with me.... im really trying to get this girl so dont tell me to mvoe on please....so my question is... do i have a chance still/ Am i back in the game to get her
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LearningSlowly

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Bwilled said:
im really trying to get this girl so dont tell me to mvoe on please....so my question is... do i have a chance still
No chance. What you should do is [CENSORED BY REQUEST OF OP].
 

alxrose04

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First, take this as a learning experience. Try to see what happened. Try to see what you did that caused her to see you like a brother. Were you just really nice to her all the time? Did you not show her your sexual/playful side? As for having a shot with her, you don't have to the best chance right now. Maybe somewhere in the distant future after she doesn't see you for a while and gets to see you in a different light but right now, it's looking tough.
 
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