"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Back in the Game. First Question

blue_eyed_devil

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What happened to oral?

Especially from younger women?

You'd think there'd been an Oprah episode proclaiming that semen contains battery acid.

Five years ago, when I was working the market, first-night head was practically a given. I remember once speculating with a buddy of mine that it was a power play by the girl -- oral places her in control. It used to be MUCH harder to get laid than it was to get head; for me, anyway.

I have had 3 ONS's and two multiple-night stands since I've been single. But not one of them under the age of 30 - that's 4 of the 5 - gave head on that first night. The woman who was my age had no problem with it.

WTF has changed? Is this some new entitlement thing with the young'uns? What did I miss?

Are we back to the 80's again?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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2crudedudes

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I dunno, but my ex (and on and off FB) ain't letting my d*ck anywhere near her mouth. However, she still expects me to eat her out. To which I say: f*ck off. We'll bone, and that's it. Maybe that's why I haven't been getting laid so much in the past months :S
 

blue_eyed_devil

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That has been EXACTLY my experience with the younger ones. Total role reversal.

They must've circulated a memo or something.

This really sucks for me, because I enjoy going down, always have. It's like all the greedy douchebags and play-gangstas out there have tipped the scales and blown it (pun unintentional) for the rest of us. LAME.
 

exscall

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well i personally dont have any problem getting oral of most of my ons or first dates etc which are all young gorgeous women. Maybe your having a bad run or there is something not appealing about your penis.
 

blue_eyed_devil

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exscall said:
well i personally dont have any problem getting oral of most of my ons or first dates etc which are all young gorgeous women. Maybe your having a bad run or there is something not appealing about your penis.
Tonight went better. Maybe you're right; it was just a run of bad luck.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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