“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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blue_eyed_devil

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What happened to oral?

Especially from younger women?

You'd think there'd been an Oprah episode proclaiming that semen contains battery acid.

Five years ago, when I was working the market, first-night head was practically a given. I remember once speculating with a buddy of mine that it was a power play by the girl -- oral places her in control. It used to be MUCH harder to get laid than it was to get head; for me, anyway.

I have had 3 ONS's and two multiple-night stands since I've been single. But not one of them under the age of 30 - that's 4 of the 5 - gave head on that first night. The woman who was my age had no problem with it.

WTF has changed? Is this some new entitlement thing with the young'uns? What did I miss?

Are we back to the 80's again?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

2crudedudes

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I dunno, but my ex (and on and off FB) ain't letting my d*ck anywhere near her mouth. However, she still expects me to eat her out. To which I say: f*ck off. We'll bone, and that's it. Maybe that's why I haven't been getting laid so much in the past months :S
 

blue_eyed_devil

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That has been EXACTLY my experience with the younger ones. Total role reversal.

They must've circulated a memo or something.

This really sucks for me, because I enjoy going down, always have. It's like all the greedy douchebags and play-gangstas out there have tipped the scales and blown it (pun unintentional) for the rest of us. LAME.
 

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well i personally dont have any problem getting oral of most of my ons or first dates etc which are all young gorgeous women. Maybe your having a bad run or there is something not appealing about your penis.
 

blue_eyed_devil

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exscall said:
well i personally dont have any problem getting oral of most of my ons or first dates etc which are all young gorgeous women. Maybe your having a bad run or there is something not appealing about your penis.
Tonight went better. Maybe you're right; it was just a run of bad luck.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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