"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Back in the Game. First Question

blue_eyed_devil

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What happened to oral?

Especially from younger women?

You'd think there'd been an Oprah episode proclaiming that semen contains battery acid.

Five years ago, when I was working the market, first-night head was practically a given. I remember once speculating with a buddy of mine that it was a power play by the girl -- oral places her in control. It used to be MUCH harder to get laid than it was to get head; for me, anyway.

I have had 3 ONS's and two multiple-night stands since I've been single. But not one of them under the age of 30 - that's 4 of the 5 - gave head on that first night. The woman who was my age had no problem with it.

WTF has changed? Is this some new entitlement thing with the young'uns? What did I miss?

Are we back to the 80's again?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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2crudedudes

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I dunno, but my ex (and on and off FB) ain't letting my d*ck anywhere near her mouth. However, she still expects me to eat her out. To which I say: f*ck off. We'll bone, and that's it. Maybe that's why I haven't been getting laid so much in the past months :S
 

blue_eyed_devil

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That has been EXACTLY my experience with the younger ones. Total role reversal.

They must've circulated a memo or something.

This really sucks for me, because I enjoy going down, always have. It's like all the greedy douchebags and play-gangstas out there have tipped the scales and blown it (pun unintentional) for the rest of us. LAME.
 

exscall

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well i personally dont have any problem getting oral of most of my ons or first dates etc which are all young gorgeous women. Maybe your having a bad run or there is something not appealing about your penis.
 

blue_eyed_devil

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exscall said:
well i personally dont have any problem getting oral of most of my ons or first dates etc which are all young gorgeous women. Maybe your having a bad run or there is something not appealing about your penis.
Tonight went better. Maybe you're right; it was just a run of bad luck.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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