Back in the game and new to the 'manosphere'.

[Serenity]

But it sounds like you're saying having her here would have been the better play because it's more dominant?

In my opinion it doesn't really matter if you're having sex and continue having sex. Don't mess with what works.

Or do you think since I already offered it would look silly to change the location arbitrarily?

That would look silly, better stick to what you've said.

 

[TheNewStyle123]

In my opinion it doesn't really matter if you're having sex and continue having sex. Don't mess with what works.


That would look silly, better stick to what you've said.

Thanks buddy! Another random question. So I paid for the drinks and apps on our firs date (obviously, I wouldn't ever make a girl pay), and I'll be bringing the food and stuff to cook at her place this Friday. I know a big topic here is all about investment (time, money, attention, etc.). After this date (granted, I'm 99% sure we will have sex again), when should I expect her to start having a financial investment in this, if ever? Since I am not looking to date this girl is is stupid to keep taking her out or making her stuff (MY financial investment) to have sex with her (HER investment). Or should I expect a casual hook up to pay for stuff too?

 

[Serenity]

(obviously, I wouldn't ever make a girl pay)

Why not? What is it really that makes men think like that, ever wondered that?

Or should I expect a casual hook up to pay for stuff too?

Casual, friends, relationship, marriage, family, hookup, man, woman or whatever, I expect others to contribute. Makes no difference to me.

 

[GioWolf]

Good advice. Yeah she said she did it for a short time to make some extra cash. She had a NICE place and a lot of Prada. Apparently there is this guy that will still occasionally see her and pay for her food and give her cash JUST TO TALK TO HIM AND LISTEN. She pulled like $1500 cash out of her purse and said he gave it to her like 2 weeks ago for listening to his problems. The dude is like 60. That's wild.

So she’s a sugar baby. But let’s be honest, men don’t pay that kind of money just to “talk”. Unless he is super simp.

 

[SW15]

Thanks man! And yes thank GOD we have no kids. As soon as there is no other reason I need to have her number (just working out final stuff with divorce and sale of house) I am deleting it and blocking it. Have a great life... lol.

That's what my cousin did with his childless divorce. His ex also moved out of state. I'm not sure he deleted her number but he was glad to not have to talk to her or not randomly ever have to see her around the city where he lives. Since they met through social circle, he heard after the divorce through said social circle that she was going to be in that city one weekend. He was worried that he'd randomly see her in the city that weekend. He didn't.

As soon as the divorce was filed for, he was meeting women through in his social circle. Word got out within the social circle and single women were coming out of the woodwork to try and date him. It was like nothing I'd ever seen before.

Thanks buddy! Another random question. So I paid for the drinks and apps on our firs date (obviously, I wouldn't ever make a girl pay), and I'll be bringing the food and stuff to cook at her place this Friday. I know a big topic here is all about investment (time, money, attention, etc.). After this date (granted, I'm 99% sure we will have sex again), when should I expect her to start having a financial investment in this, if ever? Since I am not looking to date this girl is is stupid to keep taking her out or making her stuff (MY financial investment) to have sex with her (HER investment). Or should I expect a casual hook up to pay for stuff too?

I wouldn't let money complicate things. Keep costs down and keep paying for stuff for a little bit if she continues to have sex with you on a regular basis. It's not worth the aggravation to let smaller sums of money get in the way of regular sex with a 20-something ex-stripper.