"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Elliot

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Back in the dating game in London after 7 years ltr - first date back was a great start - a stunning Brazilian lady (when first met in a bar had a man come up and shake my hand - could obviously see how well we were getting on) few schoolboy errors - gave her my number (she texted next day)
Date 4 days later - thought went well kissing -talking about next dates etc - didn't manage to get her to my hotel. Next error - texted next
Morning a photo of the Chez lounge I said she could sleep on - when trying to get her To room (hint of begging maybe?) called texted/few times over last 2 weeks to try and set 2nd date - usual hahas emoticons/laughing on the phone but no 2nd date - happy to move on from this but question is I'm 42 (everything good - health, looks, money) - had a look at match.com but all women in mid thirties look and sound serious - what/where do people recommend to meet woman late 20s/early thirties or not yet fully committed to settling down - hard to go out with friends as most married.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dustmuffin

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I find plenty of women on match. Who cares if they sound serious. Go out with them f uck them. If they get serious move along. It usually takes about 2 months when they bring up a relationship.

I consistently get loads of dates off match.
 
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