"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Elliot

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Back in the dating game in London after 7 years ltr - first date back was a great start - a stunning Brazilian lady (when first met in a bar had a man come up and shake my hand - could obviously see how well we were getting on) few schoolboy errors - gave her my number (she texted next day)
Date 4 days later - thought went well kissing -talking about next dates etc - didn't manage to get her to my hotel. Next error - texted next
Morning a photo of the Chez lounge I said she could sleep on - when trying to get her To room (hint of begging maybe?) called texted/few times over last 2 weeks to try and set 2nd date - usual hahas emoticons/laughing on the phone but no 2nd date - happy to move on from this but question is I'm 42 (everything good - health, looks, money) - had a look at match.com but all women in mid thirties look and sound serious - what/where do people recommend to meet woman late 20s/early thirties or not yet fully committed to settling down - hard to go out with friends as most married.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dustmuffin

Master Don Juan
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I find plenty of women on match. Who cares if they sound serious. Go out with them f uck them. If they get serious move along. It usually takes about 2 months when they bring up a relationship.

I consistently get loads of dates off match.
 
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