"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Elliot

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Back in the dating game in London after 7 years ltr - first date back was a great start - a stunning Brazilian lady (when first met in a bar had a man come up and shake my hand - could obviously see how well we were getting on) few schoolboy errors - gave her my number (she texted next day)
Date 4 days later - thought went well kissing -talking about next dates etc - didn't manage to get her to my hotel. Next error - texted next
Morning a photo of the Chez lounge I said she could sleep on - when trying to get her To room (hint of begging maybe?) called texted/few times over last 2 weeks to try and set 2nd date - usual hahas emoticons/laughing on the phone but no 2nd date - happy to move on from this but question is I'm 42 (everything good - health, looks, money) - had a look at match.com but all women in mid thirties look and sound serious - what/where do people recommend to meet woman late 20s/early thirties or not yet fully committed to settling down - hard to go out with friends as most married.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dustmuffin

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I find plenty of women on match. Who cares if they sound serious. Go out with them f uck them. If they get serious move along. It usually takes about 2 months when they bring up a relationship.

I consistently get loads of dates off match.
 
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