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Babysitter excuse

Southbound29

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Met up with a chick I knew last week and banged her on the first date. This coming weekend my friends and I are going to a local island to kayak and chill on the beach. I texted the chick told her she was free to tag along. She hit me with "if I can find a babysitter, I'd love to go".

Never been told that before so I'm wondering what the chances are that this is a flake line or if she's being legit. Chick has a week to figure it out.
 

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Sounds legit to me. Remember, babysitters are typically young girls or women, and they can be just as flaky about jobs as they are with dating. Even if she has one set up now, there is always the chance of her cancelling or no-showing.
 

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Sounds legit to me. Remember, babysitters are typically young girls or women, and they can be just as flaky about jobs as they are with dating. Even if she has one set up now, there is always the chance of her cancelling or no-showing.
Yes, many young girls put more value on their dating and social event life than earning a few bucks watching someone else’s kids…
 
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She’s saying that she has a kid and that her coming out depends on the babysitter.

Why go after a single mom?
 

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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