TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
All signs point to it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Baby's Momma is pushing for a reunion?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Trajhenkhet01
Don Juan
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Far be it from me to give you advice (I have no kids myself) but you may have to lay the situation out a bit better before people start throwing their 2, 3, and 4 cents in.
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
Cheaper to keep her...unless she's crazy.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Why did you end it the first time?
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
She's bipolar like a mothaf*cker!
She'll never be truly happy, no matter if some rich dude comes along and sweeps her off her feet... which is what happen. I guess a year later, they butting heads now too. I could never live with her, this I know, but she does seem to favor me over him all this time.
We've since moved on, but talk everyday on matters concerning my son.
Her family (even her Dad, which is shocking) wants us together again but man...
She's a head case with that bipolar.
She did give me one beautiful son.
She'll never be truly happy, no matter if some rich dude comes along and sweeps her off her feet... which is what happen. I guess a year later, they butting heads now too. I could never live with her, this I know, but she does seem to favor me over him all this time.
We've since moved on, but talk everyday on matters concerning my son.
Her family (even her Dad, which is shocking) wants us together again but man...
She's a head case with that bipolar.
She did give me one beautiful son.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
No, I'd keep it on friendly terms[which it won't be when she drives you crazy and YOU leave her]. As long as she left you, she'll be nice to you-don't ever think you have the right to leave her[little princesses they all are]. SHE'll ride her broom all around your life if it isn't her idea to end it.
combustiont
Don Juan
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You know deep down shes crazy and you can't deal with it.
Simple as that man.
Simple as that man.
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
Thatswazup! ...not that I can't deal with it, I just don't want to.combustiont said:
