TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
All signs point to it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Baby's Momma is pushing for a reunion?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Trajhenkhet01
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Far be it from me to give you advice (I have no kids myself) but you may have to lay the situation out a bit better before people start throwing their 2, 3, and 4 cents in.
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
Cheaper to keep her...unless she's crazy.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Why did you end it the first time?
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
She's bipolar like a mothaf*cker!
She'll never be truly happy, no matter if some rich dude comes along and sweeps her off her feet... which is what happen. I guess a year later, they butting heads now too. I could never live with her, this I know, but she does seem to favor me over him all this time.
We've since moved on, but talk everyday on matters concerning my son.
Her family (even her Dad, which is shocking) wants us together again but man...
She's a head case with that bipolar.
She did give me one beautiful son.
She'll never be truly happy, no matter if some rich dude comes along and sweeps her off her feet... which is what happen. I guess a year later, they butting heads now too. I could never live with her, this I know, but she does seem to favor me over him all this time.
We've since moved on, but talk everyday on matters concerning my son.
Her family (even her Dad, which is shocking) wants us together again but man...
She's a head case with that bipolar.
She did give me one beautiful son.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
No, I'd keep it on friendly terms[which it won't be when she drives you crazy and YOU leave her]. As long as she left you, she'll be nice to you-don't ever think you have the right to leave her[little princesses they all are]. SHE'll ride her broom all around your life if it isn't her idea to end it.
combustiont
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You know deep down shes crazy and you can't deal with it.
Simple as that man.
Simple as that man.
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
Thatswazup! ...not that I can't deal with it, I just don't want to.combustiont said:
