TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
All signs point to it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Baby's Momma is pushing for a reunion?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Trajhenkhet01
Don Juan
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Far be it from me to give you advice (I have no kids myself) but you may have to lay the situation out a bit better before people start throwing their 2, 3, and 4 cents in.
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
Cheaper to keep her...unless she's crazy.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Why did you end it the first time?
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
She's bipolar like a mothaf*cker!
She'll never be truly happy, no matter if some rich dude comes along and sweeps her off her feet... which is what happen. I guess a year later, they butting heads now too. I could never live with her, this I know, but she does seem to favor me over him all this time.
We've since moved on, but talk everyday on matters concerning my son.
Her family (even her Dad, which is shocking) wants us together again but man...
She's a head case with that bipolar.
She did give me one beautiful son.
She'll never be truly happy, no matter if some rich dude comes along and sweeps her off her feet... which is what happen. I guess a year later, they butting heads now too. I could never live with her, this I know, but she does seem to favor me over him all this time.
We've since moved on, but talk everyday on matters concerning my son.
Her family (even her Dad, which is shocking) wants us together again but man...
She's a head case with that bipolar.
She did give me one beautiful son.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
No, I'd keep it on friendly terms[which it won't be when she drives you crazy and YOU leave her]. As long as she left you, she'll be nice to you-don't ever think you have the right to leave her[little princesses they all are]. SHE'll ride her broom all around your life if it isn't her idea to end it.
combustiont
Don Juan
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You know deep down shes crazy and you can't deal with it.
Simple as that man.
Simple as that man.
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
Thatswazup! ...not that I can't deal with it, I just don't want to.combustiont said:
