"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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B-Day Letter

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Just received a b-day letter from one of the girls I am seeing: please see if I got put in the LJBF zone:

word for word"
Me again, wishing you a very happy birthday. Thank you so much for being such a good friend!!! you always bring a smile to my face, i look forward to seeing you.(sometimes)J/K You are lots of fun!!!

the letter has a cat on it which I like bettet than dogs.

It seems like she put a lot of thought into it. I mean you have to conciously say i have to give him a letter and write it out. Also, a mutual friend of ours has a b-day 4 days after mine and she did not get her one.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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the "thanks for being a good friend" is pretty much a red flag in my humble opinion.

i would assume she considers you a friend, but if you're still into her then i suggest you resort to the methods of "escaping the LJBF zone" found in the DJ Bible!!!
 
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j8snx1 said:
the "thanks for being a good friend" is pretty much a red flag in my humble opinion.

i would assume she considers you a friend, but if you're still into her then i suggest you resort to the methods of "escaping the LJBF zone" found in the DJ Bible!!!
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I do too, but I cant figure out what else she could have said without being obvious that she is in to me.
 
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Me again, wishing you a very happy birthday.
Aww, that's cute:cheer:

Thank you so much for being such a good friend!!!
Aww, that's cute too :cheer:

you always bring a smile to my face,
Aww, you're such a sweetie! :cheer:

i look forward to seeing you.(sometimes)J/K
Oh yeah, she's totally into you. :rockon:

You are lots of fun!!!
Aww! That's cute :cheer:
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LJBF, read the bible. She's given nothing in this card to suggest she could even like you more then a friend.
 
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Docs said:
Me again, wishing you a very happy birthday.
Aww, that's cute:cheer:

Thank you so much for being such a good friend!!!
Aww, that's cute too :cheer:

you always bring a smile to my face,
Aww, you're such a sweetie! :cheer:

i look forward to seeing you.(sometimes)J/K
Oh yeah, she's totally into you. :rockon:

You are lots of fun!!!
Aww! That's cute :cheer:
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LJBF, read the bible. She's given nothing in this card to suggest she could even like you more then a friend.
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I thought so. thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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