"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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B-Day Letter

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Just received a b-day letter from one of the girls I am seeing: please see if I got put in the LJBF zone:

word for word"
Me again, wishing you a very happy birthday. Thank you so much for being such a good friend!!! you always bring a smile to my face, i look forward to seeing you.(sometimes)J/K You are lots of fun!!!

the letter has a cat on it which I like bettet than dogs.

It seems like she put a lot of thought into it. I mean you have to conciously say i have to give him a letter and write it out. Also, a mutual friend of ours has a b-day 4 days after mine and she did not get her one.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the "thanks for being a good friend" is pretty much a red flag in my humble opinion.

i would assume she considers you a friend, but if you're still into her then i suggest you resort to the methods of "escaping the LJBF zone" found in the DJ Bible!!!
 
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j8snx1 said:
the "thanks for being a good friend" is pretty much a red flag in my humble opinion.

i would assume she considers you a friend, but if you're still into her then i suggest you resort to the methods of "escaping the LJBF zone" found in the DJ Bible!!!
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I do too, but I cant figure out what else she could have said without being obvious that she is in to me.
 
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Me again, wishing you a very happy birthday.
Aww, that's cute:cheer:

Thank you so much for being such a good friend!!!
Aww, that's cute too :cheer:

you always bring a smile to my face,
Aww, you're such a sweetie! :cheer:

i look forward to seeing you.(sometimes)J/K
Oh yeah, she's totally into you. :rockon:

You are lots of fun!!!
Aww! That's cute :cheer:
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LJBF, read the bible. She's given nothing in this card to suggest she could even like you more then a friend.
 
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Docs said:
Me again, wishing you a very happy birthday.
Aww, that's cute:cheer:

Thank you so much for being such a good friend!!!
Aww, that's cute too :cheer:

you always bring a smile to my face,
Aww, you're such a sweetie! :cheer:

i look forward to seeing you.(sometimes)J/K
Oh yeah, she's totally into you. :rockon:

You are lots of fun!!!
Aww! That's cute :cheer:
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LJBF, read the bible. She's given nothing in this card to suggest she could even like you more then a friend.
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I thought so. thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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