"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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B-Day Letter

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Just received a b-day letter from one of the girls I am seeing: please see if I got put in the LJBF zone:

word for word"
Me again, wishing you a very happy birthday. Thank you so much for being such a good friend!!! you always bring a smile to my face, i look forward to seeing you.(sometimes)J/K You are lots of fun!!!

the letter has a cat on it which I like bettet than dogs.

It seems like she put a lot of thought into it. I mean you have to conciously say i have to give him a letter and write it out. Also, a mutual friend of ours has a b-day 4 days after mine and she did not get her one.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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the "thanks for being a good friend" is pretty much a red flag in my humble opinion.

i would assume she considers you a friend, but if you're still into her then i suggest you resort to the methods of "escaping the LJBF zone" found in the DJ Bible!!!
 
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j8snx1 said:
the "thanks for being a good friend" is pretty much a red flag in my humble opinion.

i would assume she considers you a friend, but if you're still into her then i suggest you resort to the methods of "escaping the LJBF zone" found in the DJ Bible!!!
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I do too, but I cant figure out what else she could have said without being obvious that she is in to me.
 
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Me again, wishing you a very happy birthday.
Aww, that's cute:cheer:

Thank you so much for being such a good friend!!!
Aww, that's cute too :cheer:

you always bring a smile to my face,
Aww, you're such a sweetie! :cheer:

i look forward to seeing you.(sometimes)J/K
Oh yeah, she's totally into you. :rockon:

You are lots of fun!!!
Aww! That's cute :cheer:
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LJBF, read the bible. She's given nothing in this card to suggest she could even like you more then a friend.
 
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Docs said:
Me again, wishing you a very happy birthday.
Aww, that's cute:cheer:

Thank you so much for being such a good friend!!!
Aww, that's cute too :cheer:

you always bring a smile to my face,
Aww, you're such a sweetie! :cheer:

i look forward to seeing you.(sometimes)J/K
Oh yeah, she's totally into you. :rockon:

You are lots of fun!!!
Aww! That's cute :cheer:
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LJBF, read the bible. She's given nothing in this card to suggest she could even like you more then a friend.
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I thought so. thanks
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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