Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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B-Day Letter

trd323

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Just received a b-day letter from one of the girls I am seeing: please see if I got put in the LJBF zone:

word for word"
Me again, wishing you a very happy birthday. Thank you so much for being such a good friend!!! you always bring a smile to my face, i look forward to seeing you.(sometimes)J/K You are lots of fun!!!

the letter has a cat on it which I like bettet than dogs.

It seems like she put a lot of thought into it. I mean you have to conciously say i have to give him a letter and write it out. Also, a mutual friend of ours has a b-day 4 days after mine and she did not get her one.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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j8snx1

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the "thanks for being a good friend" is pretty much a red flag in my humble opinion.

i would assume she considers you a friend, but if you're still into her then i suggest you resort to the methods of "escaping the LJBF zone" found in the DJ Bible!!!
 

trd323

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j8snx1 said:
the "thanks for being a good friend" is pretty much a red flag in my humble opinion.

i would assume she considers you a friend, but if you're still into her then i suggest you resort to the methods of "escaping the LJBF zone" found in the DJ Bible!!!

I do too, but I cant figure out what else she could have said without being obvious that she is in to me.
 

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Me again, wishing you a very happy birthday.
Aww, that's cute:cheer:

Thank you so much for being such a good friend!!!
Aww, that's cute too :cheer:

you always bring a smile to my face,
Aww, you're such a sweetie! :cheer:

i look forward to seeing you.(sometimes)J/K
Oh yeah, she's totally into you. :rockon:

You are lots of fun!!!
Aww! That's cute :cheer:
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LJBF, read the bible. She's given nothing in this card to suggest she could even like you more then a friend.
 

trd323

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Docs said:
Me again, wishing you a very happy birthday.
Aww, that's cute:cheer:

Thank you so much for being such a good friend!!!
Aww, that's cute too :cheer:

you always bring a smile to my face,
Aww, you're such a sweetie! :cheer:

i look forward to seeing you.(sometimes)J/K
Oh yeah, she's totally into you. :rockon:

You are lots of fun!!!
Aww! That's cute :cheer:
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LJBF, read the bible. She's given nothing in this card to suggest she could even like you more then a friend.

I thought so. thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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