"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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aww sh!t it's another valentine's day thread - 2x the trouble

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Well ... the retarded day is almost upon us and this year I have 2 plates to deal with. Now we ARE supposed to get a hardcore snow storm which could prevent me from leaving the house (oh God please please please), but I can't rely on weather. I don't think either of these girls are expecting much since I've only been seeing them a few weeks, but I'm thinking it might be a good idea to say or write or do a little something nonetheless. Nothing expensive or big, just a little attention tidbit. What are you guys doin? And how do I handle em both if they each decide they want to hang out that day? And if we can't (weather permitting again please God), what can/should I do instead?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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md3sign said:
Well ... the retarded day is almost upon us and this year I have 2 plates to deal with. Now we ARE supposed to get a hardcore snow storm which could prevent me from leaving the house (oh God please please please), but I can't rely on weather. I don't think either of these girls are expecting much since I've only been seeing them a few weeks, but I'm thinking it might be a good idea to say or write or do a little something nonetheless. Nothing expensive or big, just a little attention tidbit. What are you guys doin? And how do I handle em both if they each decide they want to hang out that day? And if we can't (weather permitting again please God), what can/should I do instead?
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Don't serve dinner on spinning plates.
 
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so it's best not to do or say anything about it? what if it comes up during or after the fact like "why didn't you get me anything blah blah"?
 
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so it's best not to do or say anything about it? what if it comes up during or after the fact like "why didn't you get me anything blah blah"?
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Tell her she didn't earn it yet...it's not just C+F, it's TRUE! Until she meets all your standards and expectations, she gets squat. Until then, she's just a girl you're seeing from time to time.
 
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i have this same trouble...i'm not sure if I should call her up on Vday or if I should just let it pass like any other day
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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