"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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aww sh!t it's another valentine's day thread - 2x the trouble

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Well ... the retarded day is almost upon us and this year I have 2 plates to deal with. Now we ARE supposed to get a hardcore snow storm which could prevent me from leaving the house (oh God please please please), but I can't rely on weather. I don't think either of these girls are expecting much since I've only been seeing them a few weeks, but I'm thinking it might be a good idea to say or write or do a little something nonetheless. Nothing expensive or big, just a little attention tidbit. What are you guys doin? And how do I handle em both if they each decide they want to hang out that day? And if we can't (weather permitting again please God), what can/should I do instead?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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md3sign said:
Well ... the retarded day is almost upon us and this year I have 2 plates to deal with. Now we ARE supposed to get a hardcore snow storm which could prevent me from leaving the house (oh God please please please), but I can't rely on weather. I don't think either of these girls are expecting much since I've only been seeing them a few weeks, but I'm thinking it might be a good idea to say or write or do a little something nonetheless. Nothing expensive or big, just a little attention tidbit. What are you guys doin? And how do I handle em both if they each decide they want to hang out that day? And if we can't (weather permitting again please God), what can/should I do instead?
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Don't serve dinner on spinning plates.
 
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so it's best not to do or say anything about it? what if it comes up during or after the fact like "why didn't you get me anything blah blah"?
 
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so it's best not to do or say anything about it? what if it comes up during or after the fact like "why didn't you get me anything blah blah"?
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Tell her she didn't earn it yet...it's not just C+F, it's TRUE! Until she meets all your standards and expectations, she gets squat. Until then, she's just a girl you're seeing from time to time.
 
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i have this same trouble...i'm not sure if I should call her up on Vday or if I should just let it pass like any other day
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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