"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Awkward Situation

NeedToImprove

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'm seeing this woman who btw is married and has a kid. we are friends and sometimes we get together. She likes me, finds me interesting, she likes the sex and the way i talk to her. yes she's married but her husband never found out despite having some suspicions.

Later tonight i woke up and sent her a text message with a smiley kiss and immediately she calls me (she's usually sleeping at this time, has her kid and husband at home) and i dont answer the phone.

i found it weird she calling me me back this late at night and after getting the text message on her phone. called 4 times in a row totally not her and sent me a text message saying: what's wrong, pick up the phone, it's me i'm alone.
my gut feeling told me not to answer thinking it was her husband. did i do right?

i really dont want to ruin the friendship with her. things are good the way they are
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Alex DeLarge

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Stop what you're doing. Don't ever sleep with a woman who you know is married. That's just bad news and totally not worth it.. There are plenty of hot single women out there you can sleep with instead.
 

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You did the right thing as you can just call her tomorrow, asking what was wrong, saying you were sleeping.

You'll soon find out if it was her dude.

And sor's, I always kind of chuckle at the holier than now stuff, on a seduction forum.
 

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You sent her a "smiley kiss"? What the f*cking hell is a "smiley kiss"?

And that's a pretty dumb move to send her whatever the hell a "smiley kiss" is when she's married, since text messages aren't too hard to snoop through.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NeedToImprove

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Vice said:
You sent her a "smiley kiss"? What the f*cking hell is a "smiley kiss"?

And that's a pretty dumb move to send her whatever the hell a "smiley kiss" is when she's married, since text messages aren't too hard to snoop through.
ever heard of emoticons? eheh

but i thinks you guys are right, better to stop this
 

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1) Not a good idea to mess around with married women

2) If you aren't going to follow #1 then never write things down, send e-mail text messages etc because you'll leave a trail and if the husband goes cuckoo or is nuts he'll be coming after you.
 

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It's not the "married" part that bothers me. It's the kid. For the kid's sake... please walk away.
 

Vice

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NeedToImprove said:
ever heard of emoticons? eheh

but i thinks you guys are right, better to stop this
I've heard of emoticons. I just use them very, very rarely, especially when I text women, which is also very, very rare.

I'd say keep going, because if she stops cheating with you, she'll cheat with someone else. Just don't make it so easy for you two to get caught, damn it.
 
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