"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Awkward Situation

NeedToImprove

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'm seeing this woman who btw is married and has a kid. we are friends and sometimes we get together. She likes me, finds me interesting, she likes the sex and the way i talk to her. yes she's married but her husband never found out despite having some suspicions.

Later tonight i woke up and sent her a text message with a smiley kiss and immediately she calls me (she's usually sleeping at this time, has her kid and husband at home) and i dont answer the phone.

i found it weird she calling me me back this late at night and after getting the text message on her phone. called 4 times in a row totally not her and sent me a text message saying: what's wrong, pick up the phone, it's me i'm alone.
my gut feeling told me not to answer thinking it was her husband. did i do right?

i really dont want to ruin the friendship with her. things are good the way they are
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alex DeLarge

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Stop what you're doing. Don't ever sleep with a woman who you know is married. That's just bad news and totally not worth it.. There are plenty of hot single women out there you can sleep with instead.
 

Johnnyventana

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You did the right thing as you can just call her tomorrow, asking what was wrong, saying you were sleeping.

You'll soon find out if it was her dude.

And sor's, I always kind of chuckle at the holier than now stuff, on a seduction forum.
 

Vice

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You sent her a "smiley kiss"? What the f*cking hell is a "smiley kiss"?

And that's a pretty dumb move to send her whatever the hell a "smiley kiss" is when she's married, since text messages aren't too hard to snoop through.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NeedToImprove

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Vice said:
You sent her a "smiley kiss"? What the f*cking hell is a "smiley kiss"?

And that's a pretty dumb move to send her whatever the hell a "smiley kiss" is when she's married, since text messages aren't too hard to snoop through.
ever heard of emoticons? eheh

but i thinks you guys are right, better to stop this
 

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1) Not a good idea to mess around with married women

2) If you aren't going to follow #1 then never write things down, send e-mail text messages etc because you'll leave a trail and if the husband goes cuckoo or is nuts he'll be coming after you.
 

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It's not the "married" part that bothers me. It's the kid. For the kid's sake... please walk away.
 

Vice

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NeedToImprove said:
ever heard of emoticons? eheh

but i thinks you guys are right, better to stop this
I've heard of emoticons. I just use them very, very rarely, especially when I text women, which is also very, very rare.

I'd say keep going, because if she stops cheating with you, she'll cheat with someone else. Just don't make it so easy for you two to get caught, damn it.
 
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