"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Awkward Situation

NeedToImprove

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'm seeing this woman who btw is married and has a kid. we are friends and sometimes we get together. She likes me, finds me interesting, she likes the sex and the way i talk to her. yes she's married but her husband never found out despite having some suspicions.

Later tonight i woke up and sent her a text message with a smiley kiss and immediately she calls me (she's usually sleeping at this time, has her kid and husband at home) and i dont answer the phone.

i found it weird she calling me me back this late at night and after getting the text message on her phone. called 4 times in a row totally not her and sent me a text message saying: what's wrong, pick up the phone, it's me i'm alone.
my gut feeling told me not to answer thinking it was her husband. did i do right?

i really dont want to ruin the friendship with her. things are good the way they are
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alex DeLarge

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Stop what you're doing. Don't ever sleep with a woman who you know is married. That's just bad news and totally not worth it.. There are plenty of hot single women out there you can sleep with instead.
 

Johnnyventana

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You did the right thing as you can just call her tomorrow, asking what was wrong, saying you were sleeping.

You'll soon find out if it was her dude.

And sor's, I always kind of chuckle at the holier than now stuff, on a seduction forum.
 

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You sent her a "smiley kiss"? What the f*cking hell is a "smiley kiss"?

And that's a pretty dumb move to send her whatever the hell a "smiley kiss" is when she's married, since text messages aren't too hard to snoop through.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NeedToImprove

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Vice said:
You sent her a "smiley kiss"? What the f*cking hell is a "smiley kiss"?

And that's a pretty dumb move to send her whatever the hell a "smiley kiss" is when she's married, since text messages aren't too hard to snoop through.
ever heard of emoticons? eheh

but i thinks you guys are right, better to stop this
 

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1) Not a good idea to mess around with married women

2) If you aren't going to follow #1 then never write things down, send e-mail text messages etc because you'll leave a trail and if the husband goes cuckoo or is nuts he'll be coming after you.
 

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It's not the "married" part that bothers me. It's the kid. For the kid's sake... please walk away.
 

Vice

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NeedToImprove said:
ever heard of emoticons? eheh

but i thinks you guys are right, better to stop this
I've heard of emoticons. I just use them very, very rarely, especially when I text women, which is also very, very rare.

I'd say keep going, because if she stops cheating with you, she'll cheat with someone else. Just don't make it so easy for you two to get caught, damn it.
 
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