"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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JustWuzzle

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I'm still hanging out with the girl I met on POF. She admited that she wanted to kiss me. She just told me to be confident and sure of myself. Great advice, we worked out today I lift weights and she just did the treadmill and bike. I also noticed what you guys would call IoI's. Like her missing with my hair and playing with me with a candy rapper. She's an awesome girl I'm getting no red flags at all :woo: . I'm gonna keep hanging out with her because I'm not nervous or anything around her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Falcon25

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If you don't kiss her soon, you will be the girl that changes her tampon. Do something you fuvk. Make a move. She is begging for you to be a man. And all you want to do is "hang out" with her? Make a move.
 
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Diaforetikos

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Falcon's words are truths.

Get off your d$mn computer, pull out your fvckin phone, call the girl, arrange to meet up, then make a d$mn move!! She even had to effin' tell you to man the fvck up!!

Your a godd$mn man!! Man up and take what's yours!
 
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JustWuzzle

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Falcon25 said:
If you don't kiss her soon, you will be the girl that changes her tampon. Do something you fuvk. Make a move. She is begging for you to be a man. And all you want to do is "hang out" with her? Make a move.
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I wanna make a move and fvck her but. I don't know how she feels about that. She does bible study and goes to church. I don't wanna mess that up and have her quit cause she likes me so much but i gotta make my move,soon.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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neghitzbrah

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Would you rather go through life without making a move and regret it? Or take your chances by making a move and know for sure? That's the way I go about it.
 
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Deadly_Ripped

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Dude forget about banging it out... you haven't even kissed her yet! Start with kissing her and then think about that.
 
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JustWuzzle said:
I wanna make a move and fvck her but. I don't know how she feels about that.
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She admited that she wanted to kiss me.
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Dude, you answered your own question!

What the hell are you waiting for?!

I'm known for waiting too long to make moves on women. But damn dude, if a girl ever told me that she wanted to kiss me, I would kiss her!
 
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