"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JustWuzzle

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I'm still hanging out with the girl I met on POF. She admited that she wanted to kiss me. She just told me to be confident and sure of myself. Great advice, we worked out today I lift weights and she just did the treadmill and bike. I also noticed what you guys would call IoI's. Like her missing with my hair and playing with me with a candy rapper. She's an awesome girl I'm getting no red flags at all :woo: . I'm gonna keep hanging out with her because I'm not nervous or anything around her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Falcon25

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If you don't kiss her soon, you will be the girl that changes her tampon. Do something you fuvk. Make a move. She is begging for you to be a man. And all you want to do is "hang out" with her? Make a move.
 
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Diaforetikos

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Falcon's words are truths.

Get off your d$mn computer, pull out your fvckin phone, call the girl, arrange to meet up, then make a d$mn move!! She even had to effin' tell you to man the fvck up!!

Your a godd$mn man!! Man up and take what's yours!
 
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JustWuzzle

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Falcon25 said:
If you don't kiss her soon, you will be the girl that changes her tampon. Do something you fuvk. Make a move. She is begging for you to be a man. And all you want to do is "hang out" with her? Make a move.
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I wanna make a move and fvck her but. I don't know how she feels about that. She does bible study and goes to church. I don't wanna mess that up and have her quit cause she likes me so much but i gotta make my move,soon.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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neghitzbrah

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Would you rather go through life without making a move and regret it? Or take your chances by making a move and know for sure? That's the way I go about it.
 
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Deadly_Ripped

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Dude forget about banging it out... you haven't even kissed her yet! Start with kissing her and then think about that.
 
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JustWuzzle said:
I wanna make a move and fvck her but. I don't know how she feels about that.
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She admited that she wanted to kiss me.
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Dude, you answered your own question!

What the hell are you waiting for?!

I'm known for waiting too long to make moves on women. But damn dude, if a girl ever told me that she wanted to kiss me, I would kiss her!
 
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